It maybe stating the blatant obvious - but is a sense of hopelessness a consequence of a loss of hopefulness ?
Do we become less hopeful as we age ( I’m 69 ) , and I was more hopeful when I was younger.
Both individually , in personal circumstances and also collectively in the wider world in general.
Can having children also be a factor , in being hopeful for their prospects on their behalf ?
( I don’t have children )
If anybody feels hopeful about general state of the world , I’d appreciate hearing….
From childhood many of us were inundated from religion , fairy tales , Hollywood , pop songs , adverts etc with the hope that we were going to be saved/rescued by some “saviour” , which could take many forms - which the "romance industry" also exploits.
Much religion and/or politics are probably most responsible in indoctrinating a “blind faith” in following “leaders” in order to be “saved”.
And that can be utilised to placate people - both individually and collectively - to accept/tolerate suffering in life with promises of "salvation" in future and/or an "after-life.
Romantic fantasies of “perfect partners” promising “happy-ever-after”.
Political leaders promising material “abundance” if elected.
Happiness always just being around the corner.
Religious saviours promising eternal life-ever-after…
As much as all that can be understood , could it still leave a lingering (unconscious) “imprint” - which capitalism exploits opportunistically.
As Patrick Ness put it in his novel
A Monster Calls - “Your mind will believe comforting lies while also knowing the painful truths that make those lies necessary. And your mind will punish you for believing both.”
" For Todd McGowan - ‘the recurring fantasy within capitalism is that of attaining some degree of authentic belonging (in a romantic relationship, in a group of friends, in the nation, and so on)’
- but while capitalism ‘spawns a type of fantasy, it constantly militates against the fantasy’s realization’ because if the subject were to reach the fulfilment promised by capitalism, it would stop needing to pursue the infinite pleasures and commodities of capitalism itself.
Capitalism doesn’t just prevent us from getting or being what we want.
It also creates the desire for what we want and for who we want to be ;
before mediating, limiting and controlling those desires.
Todd McGowan : Capitalism & Desire
Capitalism and Desire | Columbia University Press