I must live in a bubble of middle class liberalism where no one I know would ever make disparaging comments about people on benefits.
You're very lucky I think.
Before 2008, I very rarely heard such comments either, certainly not in my workplace (very 'liberal'/'civilised' with a reasonable handful of actual full-on lefties around as well).
Maybe in the pub I'd sometimes hear disparaging comments, but not that often. Maybe before 2008 attitudes against claimants were a tad less venemous, although Sun and Mail headlines certainly weren't, as I recall.
But back then (probably ever since I left as well), there were posters around my borough inviting people to shop housing benefit 'fraudsters', and other posters (DWP?) saying 'we've got our eyes on you' or similar, aimed at benefit claimants more generally.
Over the years, I guess propaganda like this, whether from tabloid headlines and shock stories (especially), or from government agencies or from main-party politicians, is going to have a drip drip effect on peoples' opinions. Earlier posters have talked about that and I agree. The effect seems to have been cumulatively huge in strengthening and widening peoples' negativity.
Even given all that though ...
I still feel bloody depressed, here in S Wales, especially since I started working in mid 2010, how much claimants are actively hated (not too strong a word) and resented by so many among my colleagues, and among so many 'blokes in pubs' etc.
Attitudes appear to be far far more negative and widespread than I remember being aware of in London, and I lived in a perfectly ordinary area then as well.
Perfectly prepared to believe that attitudes in London have got worse over the last few years as well, mind
Perhaps becoming a JSA claimant myself (2 separate periods over just under eighteen months) after I moved here myself has opened my eyes to how little some people like you. Yes you, the claimant or ex-claimant, are hated! Assumptions of fraud/leadswinging underly so many attitudes towards you. Not least attitudes built into DWP procedures and questioning ....
I don't work Fridays any more now (went part time in October, and by choice). Will probably be going out some time around 2 or 2:30 pm today. Might a recently moved in neighbour, or their friend/visitor, guess that I'm a 'scrounger'? Other more long standing in my street know we both leave the house at stupid a clock in the morning other days a week, but I wonder how many 'shop a fraudster' calls are made to 'hotlines' for shitstirrers and grasses, on the basis of assumptions? On the basis of what people assume? From what they want to believe?
festivaldeb is a welfare rights adviser not far from here -- elderly and disability claimants mostly. How her job and office survives in cuts-central times remains a mystery! But her most depressinmg anecdotes are about the number of her own clients who share popular/negative assumptions about other claimants.
It's always the others!