hello thread
sorry if this is garbled, i'm not sure what's relevant info and what isn't. also excuse patchy info, i can ask more qs and check details.
my bezzer is in a bad way atm. she has longstanding (since childhood) mental health issues, that express mostly in ocd and anxiety. she's a lone parent, with kid1 age 14 and kid2 age 5. kid1 has ongoing medical and mental health issues - entailing various appointments and time off from school. bezzer's mh stuff is exacerbated with her direct neighbours doing heavy building work at all hours of the day, and needing the pipes in her house replacing because they're made of lead - so upcoming extensive works making her home feel unsafe.
she's on a "looking for work" benefit atm, with all the required jobsearching. she's followed up every opportunity and either they've fizzled out for some reason out of her control or she's been simply unable to manage. she was signed off by her doctor for a bit but (and here's where i'm unhelpfully fuzzy) i think that only lasts so long so she's back on the jobsearch now.
i know nothing of the system but i think pip might be relevant? i did ask but she's terrified by piles of official paperwork and the assessments etc. but equally she's overwhelmed and beaten down by the jobsearch stuff.
does anyone have any advice or options? realistically would it be better to find a way of working the job search system or would she stand any chance of getting some peace-of-mind and ongoing financial support through pip?