My little boy breaks my heart wide open on a daily basis.
He may be the most sweet-natured cat I’ve ever lived with.
There are three Big Boy cats who come around the garden so I anticipate some problems when MM is older. Right now, he scrambles for home whenever he sees them. They’ve spotted him too, so they’ve taken to sitting on outside window sills and preening, and this evening someone scent sprayed very close to my back door.
I’ve lived with several king toms (even though they were neutered they had that natural authority) but MM doesn’t strike me as a natural king. I really hope I don’t end up having a cat-piss smelly home and having to keep him trapped indoors at night with the cat flap locked and paying out for abscess wounds on his tail etc.
For the time being, I’m only letting him out when I can reasonably keep an eye out for him. He’s both desperately eager to explore, and very keen to stay close to home. Whenever I’ve lost sight of him (cue the worried searching) he’s turned up indoors. I’m training him to associate coming indoors when called with something nice like a treat, or playing with me, or a cuddle.
I’m hoping not to associate food and feeding with anything too obvious and predictable, in the hope that he doesn’t ever develop the habit of nagging me the instant I come indoors or wake up, or he arrives indoors or wakes up.
Fortunately for me he’s not an early riser (!!) and is quite happy to laze about til I get out of bed. A few times, he’s not bothered getting up at all til I’m out the shower and dressing.
Also foxes. There are a couple of regular visitors and while they’re very obviously not at all interested in cats, MM find them fascinating and scary. I don’t want him running away and getting stuck somewhere or losing track of his bearings, so I’m not letting him out when I know the foxes are about. It’ll be easier when he’s bigger and chipped etc.
He sometimes hunches his neck: I think it must be associated with his curly tail, as if his spine is pulled tight like a drawstring. There’s no apparent pain or discomfort, no loss of movement or strength, although his tail seems less sensitive than I've known on other cats (I accidentally leaned on it the other day and he barely noticed). He carries his tail flipped over his back, kinked back in a U-turn. I’ve googled, there is a relatively new breed called American Ringtail (or sling-a-ling) with the same curled tail, but I think MM is a genetic blip, no one else in his family has this. He can straighten it, but doesn’t. It exposes his bum hole really obviously and I think this may be why he was the last remaining kitten in his litter. He wasn’t pretty enough to be snapped up!