It's a terrible start to the year, 3 of us cat-loving Urbs (that we know of) losing a cat within the first few weeks - I hope it's not going to be like the catpocalypse version of what 2016 was for celebrity deaths - not trying to be flippant (I still feel terribly raw and wounded from my loss), just I hope that is the end of it now and that everyone else has a great year.
(EDIT: Btw cos I was struggling with my feelings I started a thread about pet bereavement in knobbing and sobbing - if anyone else wants to post on there please do so, I started it cos I needed some moral support - sometimes I find it helpful to write about stuff when dealing with highly emotional things and just have a bit of a blub and get it all out there - and couldn't find an existing thread, but it wasn't intended as a self-indulgent me thread as such and I'd be more than happy for input from others, whether it is offering advice or wanting support or just talking about the loss of their pet - people have been very helpful to me there)