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Yeh it's nonsense, the way to make new friends is what I used to do every time I moved somewhere new. You find a pub you like and go there an evening or two a week.

It takes a while but if you're persistent you'll meet people you get on with. Most of my mates turned out to be alcoholics mind, but that's a small price :)
Not always easy for women to go into a pub on their own and expect to find friends. Given the society we live in, they'd be more likely to get hassle.
 
A dog is a remarkably effective way of meeting new people. Ethically dubious if your sole purpose is to achieve that end, of course.

Plus the dog can act as a slightly haphazard arsehole-detector
 
The dog advice isn't good if you get a rescue that can be aggressive to other dogs (as with my previous dog) or doesn't trust random new people (as with my present dog). I spend much of my time on walks avoiding people with or without dogs :)
 
Chiles today wittering on about Motorway helplines offers this half-witted, credulous conclusion:

Right. So perhaps if it had said “Ltd” after “UK Highways” on the sign, that would have been clearer. It’s a private company being paid – ultimately by us, the public – to look after roads. Fine. Whatever works, assuming it does work. I asked an accountant friend about UK Highways Ltd, and he found a note in its last accounts that said: “The company is a wholly owned subsidiary undertaking of Vercity Management Services Ltd.” And, in turn, a note in Vercity’s last accounts, explaining that its “ultimate parent undertaking and controlling party is Innisfree M&G PPP LP”. Innisfree Ltd being “a fund manager managing a number of private equity infrastructure funds”.

A number of thoughts assail me, not least that I might have been better off not asking the question in the first place. But does it have to be this complicated? For what it’s worth, until someone tells me otherwise, I’m choosing to believe that this somewhat complicated structure results in an outcome beneficial to all, namely reasonable returns for all corporate entities involved, good value for the taxpayer via National Highways, and motorways and major A roads that are kept in tolerably good nick.
 
I have heard of a thing called Andy’s man club too but am wary of that as my mind has filed it away, perhaps incorrectly, as a self help group for broken men with historic anger and coke usage issues and I don’t fall into that bracket and don’t need anyone like that in my life
As I understand it it is a way for men to talk to other men, in particular those men who are struggling with something emotionally. I think it was set up by the family of Andy, who committed suicide, partly due to bottling up feelings he couldn't deal with alone.
 
Yeah, not wanting to come across as the massive Chiles stan that I obviously am, but hard to read that as anything other than sarcasm surely? Although if not and he actually is that thick then that's also charming in its way I suppose.
 
Yeah, not wanting to come across as the massive Chiles stan that I obviously am, but hard to read that as anything other than sarcasm surely? Although if not and he actually is that thick then that's also charming in its way I suppose.
Maybe I'm being dim, but I'm really not picking up sarcasm, just a cheery, ill-informed hope.

Right. So perhaps if it had said “Ltd” after “UK Highways” on the sign, that would have been clearer. It’s a private company being paid – ultimately by us, the public – to look after roads. Fine. Whatever works, assuming it does work. I asked an accountant friend about UK Highways Ltd, and he found a note in its last accounts that said: “The company is a wholly owned subsidiary undertaking of Vercity Management Services Ltd.” And, in turn, a note in Vercity’s last accounts, explaining that its “ultimate parent undertaking and controlling party is Innisfree M&G PPP LP”. Innisfree Ltd being “a fund manager managing a number of private equity infrastructure funds”.

It's almost like he's never before contemplated the role of asset management ownership in our society or, indeed, bothered to look into it at all.
 
For what it's worth, the only new acquaintances I've met in the last few years have been via fitness activities. Not just going to the gym, where you never get talking to anyone, but running clubs, fitness classes, organised hikes. I can't really think of another way I'd meet anyone now I don't drink.
 
For what it's worth, the only new acquaintances I've met in the last few years have been via fitness activities. Not just going to the gym, where you never get talking to anyone, but running clubs, fitness classes, organised hikes. I can't really think of another way I'd meet anyone now I don't drink.
My friend moved from London to Reading aged late 30s and made friends via the running club. I aspire to do join the local club myself when I’m a bit fitter. But that could be a while

Keep meaning to find a suitable organised hiking group but the ones round here I am aware of are either weekday ones for retirees or for women. I probably need to look harder.
 
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I find it interesting that this Nell Frizzell person has knocked out two columns that feature so close to each other on the website, with this overlapping theme.
 
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