Raheem
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I think most people would approach that one with an open mind, but whatever.(And I think most people and most scientists and those in the medical profession realise it's bullshit).
I think most people would approach that one with an open mind, but whatever.(And I think most people and most scientists and those in the medical profession realise it's bullshit).
An open mind as to whether a preference for plastic soldiers and guns or plastic dolls and dresses is somehow "hardwired" into our DNA?I think most people would approach that one with an open mind, but whatever.
Ah yes, women not too fond of them wheel things.
That's nothing close to what I said. There have been some studies suggesting some differences in behaviour between groups of boy and girl babies when presented when presented with toys. These differences may, therefore be innate.An open mind as to whether a preference for plastic soldiers and guns or plastic dolls and dresses is somehow "hardwired" into our DNA?
If that is what you think then please please take a moment to consider what you are suggesting.
That's nothing close to what I said. There have been some studies suggesting some differences in behaviour between groups of boy and girl babies when presented when presented with toys. These differences may, therefore be innate.
I don't have a full list of supposed differences, but I'd be as surprised as anyone if they went as far Barbie/He-Man preference.
I don't know enough to evaluate the quality of this science, but it's certainly not implausible, imo. We are born with quite a range of universal behaviours and it shouldn't be a shock if someone has discovered a new one.
There are differences in behaviour between groups of boy and girl babies who have been treated differently according to their sex since birth. That's suggesting nurture rather than nature.That's nothing close to what I said. There have been some studies suggesting some differences in behaviour between groups of boy and girl babies when presented when presented with toys. These differences may, therefore be innate.
I don't have a full list of supposed differences, but I'd be as surprised as anyone if they went as far Barbie/He-Man preference.
I don't know enough to evaluate the quality of this science, but it's certainly not implausible, imo. We are born with quite a range of universal behaviours and it shouldn't be a shock if someone has discovered a new one.
the problem is that hetero-normative and cissexxist cultural infulence and programming is there from day 1I think there is science behind that, although I don't know exactly how solid it is. Studies suggesting boys prefer toys with wheels and things like that.
the problem , as usual, is that the closer one is to being a cisgender, heterosexual , white, financially secure, man the less insight one has into oppression and the mechanisms of oppressionAh yes, women not too fond of them wheel things.
your ignorance really is showing now ...That's nothing close to what I said. There have been some studies suggesting some differences in behaviour between groups of boy and girl babies when presented when presented with toys. These differences may, therefore be innate.
I don't have a full list of supposed differences, but I'd be as surprised as anyone if they went as far Barbie/He-Man preference.
I don't know enough to evaluate the quality of this science, but it's certainly not implausible, imo. We are born with quite a range of universal behaviours and it shouldn't be a shock if someone has discovered a new one.
I think if that's all you have you should give it some time.your ignorance really is showing now ...
I think it's fairly obvious that the younger a child is, the less it's gender identity will have been formed by socialisation. We can't necessarily plot the development accurately, particularly in the early weeks and months of life. But no-one can really deny there is a process of going from less to moreThere are differences in behaviour between groups of boy and girl babies who have been treated differently according to their sex since birth. That's suggesting nurture rather than nature.
Gender Identity is not formed by socialisation - John Money 'proved' that with the mutilation and subsequent abuses in the Reimer case. (J Money is firmly in the transphobic camp)I think it's fairly obvious that the younger a child is, the less it's gender identity will have been formed by socialisation. We can't necessarily plot the development accurately, particularly in the early weeks and months of life. But no-one can really deny there is a process of going from less to more
And so, if gender differences are observed in babies, it is undiluted rubbish to claim this as evidence of behaviour formed by nurture. It might, on the other be suggestive of something present at birth. It would not be conclusive, of course. But we don't really have anything conclusive, which is why we should try not to reach a conclusion.
Please stop imagining it impresses anyone to deal in tepid insults. Swear, at least.please, stop embarassing yourself
I'm not conflating anything, because I have only talked about one thing - the possibility of gendered behaviour in infants. I"ve been explicit about not drawing any conclusions about that, and I haven't inferred anything about anything else.you appear to be conflating Gender Identity, Gender epxression and Gender roles ( and therefore Stereotypes) in a manner most commonly seen in transphobes
I think it's fairly obvious that the younger a child is, the less it's gender identity will have been formed by socialisation. We can't necessarily plot the development accurately, particularly in the early weeks and months of life. But no-one can really deny there is a process of going from less to more
And so, if gender differences are observed in babies, it is undiluted rubbish to claim this as evidence of behaviour formed by nurture. It might, on the other be suggestive of something present at birth. It would not be conclusive, of course. But we don't really have anything conclusive, which is why we should try not to reach a conclusion.
I think very few psychologists in the 21st century hold a belief purely in nature on the one hand or nurture on the other.
Yup and even with parents who don't buy particularly gendered toys and clothes for their kids...extended family and friends often do. I didn't buy anything pink for my daughter but her nan ensured her wardrobe was stuffed with pink.the problem is that hetero-normative and cissexxist cultural infulence and programming is there from day 1
you are embarrassing yourself againI'm not conflating anything, because I have only talked about one thing - the possibility of gendered behaviour in infants. I"ve been explicit about not drawing any conclusions about that, and I haven't inferred anything about anything else.
because the 'born in the wrong body' narrative is a vast over simplification of the experience of Gender Incongruence and Gender Dysphoria concocted, primarily by cisgender writers and editors speaking over trans voices, for the palatable reception of an ill informed Cisgender audienceYes, absolutism about either nature or nurture is doomed.
But I’m confused that the diehard anti-GC people are arguing against the kind of innatism which makes it easier to say things like “born into the wrong body”.
exactly thisYup and even with parents who don't buy particularly gendered toys and clothes for their kids...extended family and friends often do. I didn't buy anything pink for my daughter but her nan ensured her wardrobe was stuffed with pink.
I had a fuck load of girly toys bought for me as a kid I barely played with, much preferring the tanks, cars, guns, robots and knives one of my family members thankfully bought for me.
because the 'born in the wrong body' narrative is a vast over simplification of the experience of Gender Incongruence and Gender Dysphoria concocted, primarily by cisgender writers and editors speaking over trans voices, for the palatable reception of an ill informed Cisgender audience
If that's the level of the discussion you're interested in then ok. You smell a bit and you've got eggs coming out of your nose.you are embarrassing yourself again
you clearly are conflating
As the father of a daughter who was speaking in sentences well before a year old, what was bought for her was chosen by her, and it was pink. She is 48 now, and still loves pink.An open mind as to whether a preference for plastic soldiers and guns or plastic dolls and dresses is somehow "hardwired" into our DNA?
If that is what you think then please please take a moment to consider what you are suggesting.
which interventions would those be ?Well, without that narrative, neutral audiences will be even less comfortable with irrevocable interventions performed on gender dysphoric teenagers.
thanks for confirming you are unable to engage in a discussion about a serious topic with any level of insight or wit...If that's the level of the discussion you're interested in then ok. You smell a bit and you've got eggs coming out of your nose.
There are essentialist and anti-essentialist forms of pro-trans argument, just as there are essentialist and anti-essentialist anti-trans arguments. I've linked to this article a few times now, but it is a useful explainer on that point:Yes, absolutism about either nature or nurture is doomed.
But I’m confused that the diehard anti-GC people are arguing against the kind of innatism which makes it easier to say things like “born into the wrong body”.
It’s easy to see why some explanations of trans people’s choices persist. The dominant narrative in society currently is that genders are a naturally occurring result of innate biological differences. It is assumed these probably came about through evolution, as sexist scientists retrospectively impose our current gender stereotypes on the past, in a Flintstones-style view of history, and conclude that male and female brains developed out of the “natural” roles that our reproductive organs are assumed to have landed us with. In fact gender is a far more recent human invention, but the oppression of women seemingly has to be justified somehow, whether by reference to God, science, or something else. This pop neuroscience can be used to give trans people legitimacy. If men and women really have man-brains and woman-brains, then it’s plausible we could have landed the wrong brain to go with our genitals somehow (or the wrong genitals to go with our brains, depending on your perspective). It seems easier to get a society already invested in gender essentialism to accept that we’ve just been put in the wrong box, than to get people to question everything they thought they knew about men and women. Arguing that the entire system is bullshit and needs to be torn down is a massive task and not going to get us any joy any time soon. It’s easy to see why some trans people prefer a narrative less threatening to the status quo, but this is not inherently part of being trans.
Still many ordinary trans people will talk about their transition in terms that recognise that gender is a role, not an innate quality, for example by talking about the time when they used to be a man or a woman. Exploring gender in the way that we do as trans people can often make its socially constructed nature more apparent to us, at the same time as living life as a trans person demonstrates the practical need to provide cis people with explanations for our choices which will get them off our backs.
A few parallels can be drawn to the gay rights movement. The claims to be “born this way” benefited the fight against homophobia within the existing narrative. Homosexuality was seen as a sin, which implicitly assumed a choice. Arguing that gay people can’t help being gay, and reinforcing this with the claim that it is strictly nature, not nurture, is a simpler step towards tolerance than trying to remove the negative associations with homosexuality. If being gay and trans are afflictions that can’t be helped, then it’s easier to argue that society has a responsibility to accommodate us. Of course without the existence of homophobia, choosing to be gay wouldn’t be a problem. It’s only in such a homophobic society that we so strongly associate the claim that it’s a choice with the view that it’s the wrong choice. Similarly arguing that trans people are born trans appears to be a more manageable path to acceptance, at the cost of supporting gender essentialist ideas.
As the father of a daughter who was speaking in sentences well before a year old, what was bought for her was chosen by her, and it was pink. She is 48 now, and still loves pink.