I have too.I too have been on ferries that didn't sink.
When that helicopter crashed at Leicester City, my stepdad's mum was living in Leicester.
Mrs Frank was once in a car that stopped to avoid hitting a cat. The car that overtook hers was then destroyed by a roadside bomb a hundred yards up the road.
But again, there seems to be a bit of stickiness around the understanding of ‘personal aversion’.
Frankly, my mother was a Pan Am stewardess in the 80’s and was signed off sick for pretty much all of 1989 because she couldn’t face it, so I’m well aware of things that happen to aircraft. I’m just not, personally, afraid of flying or dying that way. Never have been.
I don’t go on ferries much, because I don’t like them. I don’t feel safe on them. I can’t relax on them. Where at all possible, I take other forms of transport. Whether that’s a flight over, or a tunnel under, or the long way round to access a bridge, that’s what I’ll do. It has nothing to do with statistical safety, or roadside bombings of vehicles, or helicopters crashing in Midland towns.
I remember the Herald of Free Enterprise very clearly. Being trapped in a freezing sinking ship is my personal vision of hell. That’s why when I’m on a boat, I don’t sleep below deck in cabins. I remain up top in sight of the exit. People who like them can do whatever they like.
Have I cleared that up so we don’t have to revisit the subject or explore it any further in a thread that isn’t about this or me?
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