andysays
Love and solidarity
After 20 odd years of gardening in a wide variety of spaces and contexts, I now view gardens and gardening primarily as a process of finding what works in a particular context, within the various limitations we experience.I really enjoy reading this thread too. It's great to see how other people have tackled their gardens and allotments. It's interesting to see different approaches and styles and plants I've never even heard of!
It would be good to see some of the posters who don't frequent the thread so much come back to give us updates on their gardens.
What have a learnt about my garden since I created it? It's a living thing that does what it wants a lot of the time. The neat planting plans I formulated at the start have become a lot less rigid. Some things worked, some things didn't. Some things grew out of control (the artichoke!). The garden grows and changes in ways I hadn't envisaged but it's good that it's evolving. I just have to work out how to coax it in a direction that I want.
As the garden had been subjected to major earthworks even before I got here, the resulting beds and borders have very different growing conditions even over a relatively short distance. There's still areas that I planted up which need reconsidering - some plants aren't quite as happy as they should be. Other bits, like my low yew hedging and the big beech hedge have exceeded my expectations.
You're so right when you say it isn't a competition. We all want different things from our gardens and we have to work with what we've got - I so want to grow rhododendrons but the effort to grow them in an overwhelmingly chalky dry site is so time-consuming I wouldn't be able to do so much elsewhere.
Gardens provide us with challenges. Each new season brings something different. I've noticed the spring bulbs in my garden are so much better than last year but the lingering cold weather and recent snow may well have finished off some of my hebes. It's these changes, whether it's down to my garden maturing, the effects of the weather or the amount of hungry wildlife eating my plants that keeps me inspired to go out there and make it better! Knowing there are other posters on this thread facing similar challenges just makes it easier to do.
We try things, see what works and what doesn't, and hopefully learn from the experience.