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Johnny Vodka

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As some of you will know, my dad went to live in a care home early last year. Finance-wise, we need to get his flat sold within a year and a half or so now. Looking for the easiest way to prepare for this. I'm not really expecting a lot of help from other family members... He was a bit of a hoarder so the place is quite disorganised and there's a lot of old hi-fi equipment. I'm thinking removing personal stuff (photos, etc), then minimum tidying... Would a charity then come in and help themselves to anything they could sell? Also thinking professional cleaning company and maybe a decorator for an unsightly bit in his hall. Anyone been through similar and got any good tips?
 
When my f-i-l had to do this for his brother's place there was a local charity that helped with clearing, painting and cleaning. Is there a council for volunteer services near you that could point you in this direction?
 
Dunno dessiato. Just studying his finances this morning to see how long I have. It's longer than I thought, given various assumptions. It would be good just to get it all done ASAP, but realistically probably commit to a couple of hours sorting and tidying every weekend until it's finished. Fortunately, his flat is just across the road...
 
Johnny Vodka, I found doing this really hard so I sympathise.

We went through and took a few things we wanted then divided the rest into 'stuff to be chucked away' and 'stuff that might be some use'. We took the movable part of the latter to charity shops.

We found the British Heart Foundation was one of the few charities that takes furniture and they came and collected and took even stuff we thought was way too knackered for anyone to want.

I think they wouldn't take white/electrical goods though. We found a small local charity that would (think they help people newly out of care/previously homeless who get a flat but then need to furnish it so obvs a very good cause) and they took all that.

Good luck. I certainly found it a lot more difficult emotionally than I'd thought I would. X
 
I don't have personal experience of this but I do know a couple of things. House clearance people will do an evaluation for you. If there's stuff worth selling it'll offset the disposal costs, potentially to zero, unlikely into a profit. If not they'll give you a price for getting rid of everything. Getting them to do that allows you to delegate the whole thing and might be emotionally useful, not having to get caught up in every detail.

Make sure they have legit waste disposal practices, you don't want to find out they flytip it somewhere!
 
A friend has just done this. She photographed and advertised on gumtree and sold some things for a low price

Shes very in touch with her neighbours so lots of them took stuff (for free)

She was glad things went to use rather than just the bin

I helped her do some of the sorting and was inclined to chuck out more thinking it wouldn't be useful- happy to be proved wrong, lots of it went to be appreciated in new homes
 
Yeah like mauvais says we've just bought a house that had a deceased elderly persons belongings in and the person who we are buying the property from enlisted the help for a similar firm. They emptied it and cleaned it out in a day.
I know that's a bit different for you with it being your pops things and all but it can be swift solution for time and effort.

I'm pretty certain the guy who cleared our place paid the seller as a lot of the furniture was top notch antiques.

I cleared out my nan's house and this house (Mates late mum) when I moved into it. It took fucking ages ;)
 
Yeah like mauvais says we've just bought a house that had a deceased elderly persons belongings in and the person who we are buying the property from enlisted the help for a similar firm. They emptied it and cleaned it out in a day.
I know that's a bit different for you with it being your pops things and all but it can be swift solution for time and effort.

I'm pretty certain the guy who cleared our place paid the seller as a lot of the furniture was top notch antiques.
It is possible that you can end up getting paid, but inherently it'll be much less than if you'd bothered to sell things individually, because it's a punt on their part as to what they might get for things, and has to cover both profit and all the non-profitable work. Plus people tend to think of their stuff as perhaps worth more than it is.

Either way I think it's a good idea. Dealing with things individually - in whatever way - is one of those things that sounds like a good idea but turns out to be a hassle. Depends on the situation, I guess.
 
If he has anything of particular value maybe get a specialist in. e.g.a mate of mine who deals in second hand records regularly values and buys up collections in this situation.

I remember when I was house hunting years ago a guy in his 50s/60s showing me around a house his dad had lived in... could tell he was finding it tough.
 
We, brother & I, have got this coming-up at some point over the next few years, and I am not looking forward to it.

It'll be family first to take anything they want, then a mate who does house clearances and I trust to pay a decent amount for anything they can sell on, then charity shops, and the rest into a skip.

We'll then get in estate agents to advise on what little/cheap improvements could make a decent different in the sale price.
 
He was a bit of a hoarder so the place is quite disorganised and there's a lot of old hi-fi equipment. I'm thinking removing personal stuff (photos, etc), then minimum tidying... Would a charity then come in and help themselves to anything they could sell?

If he has anything of particular value maybe get a specialist in. e.g.a mate of mine who deals in second hand records regularly values and buys up collections in this situation.

very much that. what may appear to many to be a pile of old tat can, to the right sort of collector, be valuable. for example (in my line of country) a box of 1920s tram tickets might appear to be many to be tat, but if each individual ticket is worth a few pounds if you offer it to the right people, it's worth not overlooking.

things like old phone directories / street directories are quite valuable now for local / family history research.

and so on.

Johnny Vodka - is it practical to discuss this with dad? while some collectors have an over-optimistic idea of the value of their stuff, he might know what's what, and (if relevant) know what dealers and / or museums to talk to, and whether his preference is to prioritise 'good home' rather than maximum cash.

if any stuff is museum-worthy then museums will often accept collections as long as the person giving it is happy with the idea of anything that duplicates any existing items in their collection being sold on.

having said that, many charity shops are a bit more switched on to this sort of thing than they used to be, and will try and get a fair price for stuff for their funds rather than flog stuff off for pence and let someone else profit.

I think they wouldn't take white/electrical goods though.

certainly some BHF shops (the big ones that do furniture etc) will handle electrical goods - maybe not the small ones that do the traditional clothes / books etc.

Oxfam also have some specialist music shops, the one in Reading handles old hi-fi as well.
 
Personally I'd start with the furniture, the big stuff will cost more to dispose of at short notice and you will have less emotional attachment to it. Facebook Marketplace, Gumtree and Freecycle.

It's actually better to put a low price on things rather than give them away for free. A lot of people filter on the free listings but then realise they don't have the transport to take things away and so don't turn up.

I confess that my Dad's more personal stuff stayed in my garage for two years before I could deal with it and there is still some in there going mouldy...
 
Get rid of all the clutter now.

Keep the furniture till you have a buyer. Buyers generally prefer to buy a house that's being lived in. If it's empty , they'll be wanting to knock the price down more
 
When we did dad's we were brutal. A lot of charity places only want good quality stuff. So we hired a skip and just chucked stuff out. Good furniture we called resettlement places to collect.
 
My sister and I had to clear our late parent's house and the year after our late aunt's flat, both in the West Midlands.

We used the Good Shepherd Ministry charity in Bilston and they were brilliant, we just left everything (other than a few things we personally wanted to keep and a few semi valuable items that went to an Auctioneer) and they cleared it all, even the huge amount of bits and pieces in the garage. Goodness knows how long it took their volunteers to pack it all up - it was done after we had left in both cases.

They were very reasonable too - the furniture and household items are passed on to people in need - refugee families etc. and other things sold in a charity shop.

Maybe you can find a charity like that in your area?
 
As some of you will know, my dad went to live in a care home early last year. Finance-wise, we need to get his flat sold within a year and a half or so now. Looking for the easiest way to prepare for this. I'm not really expecting a lot of help from other family members... He was a bit of a hoarder so the place is quite disorganised and there's a lot of old hi-fi equipment. I'm thinking removing personal stuff (photos, etc), then minimum tidying... Would a charity then come in and help themselves to anything they could sell? Also thinking professional cleaning company and maybe a decorator for an unsightly bit in his hall. Anyone been through similar and got any good tips?
If you have chance, post up some pics of the hi fi equipment so we could maybe help you decide its worth?
 
There wasn't anything of real value in my dad's place. We took a few sentimental items and then hired a house clearance team who have their own auction house. They cleared the place for a fee but then auctioned what was worth selling and we ended up with a couple of hundred out of the deal as the auction more than covered the clearance cost. They sent us a list of everything that was sold and what it went for.

It was so much easier than clearing it ourselves and they did the whole job in a day.
 
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