I like Thich Nhat Hahn’s concept of Interbeing. It’s his coinage for Dependent Origination. The idea that we are not independent units but that there are, radiating out from us and to us, circles of conditions for our existence. I cannot Be without a whole panoply of conditions. Obviously my parents. But also food producers, house builders, medical professionals, and non human conditions such as food, the fabric of my home, the planet I stand on.
My flat is in a building built 200 years ago. The original builders are long gone. But their labour then gives me shelter now. The more you think about it, the more connections with other beings and other objects you see. And not just events or things or people in our own time.
We tend to see time as linear. But the conditions for my existence are there over billions of years. Obviously the parents I had in turn had parents. And their parents had parents. And this goes back beyond history. And beyond the existence of Homo sapiens. It did not come about that the last pre Homo sapiens mother gave birth to the first H. sapiens child. There was a gradation of mother and child, mother and child, mother and child, over geological time. My direct lineage. My direct family tree includes non human ancestors. Then non primate. Non mammal. Non reptile. Off the land back into the sea all the way to the primordial soup near a volcanic vent where life began. All these beings directly led to me. And all those beings had conditions for their existence.
To me, that is reincarnation. The life I live, the life force responsible for my thoughts and actions, came from many non human beings. It will pass on to my children. But also my existence will touch those I taught, those I interact with, and those they interact with.
That is Interbeing. I “inter-am” with the trees outside my window, the long dead builders of my home, the children I taught, the people I socialised with, the coffee I drank at breakfast, the cup I drank it from.