chilango
Hypothetical Wanker
For about 3 years from 1999-2002 ish I was someone's boss, and I haven't been anyone's boss since then by choice, when I realised I didn't ever want to be responsible for sacking someone (that kinda limits your ability as a manager of people). For those few years in London, I was uncomfortable every day with the middle class people I had to work with, mix with, the accents I had to listen to, the backgrounds I had to feel intimidated by, because I know I am not like them and never will be.
So if that brief sojourn into line management is what makes me m/c then fine, I'll concede. Although as I look around my life today, this wondrous middle class life of mine, I do wonder if it's too late to get my money back.
It made you m/c for that period. You have that lived experience. You referred to it to support a
point you were making in argument.
That's all.
Anyway, I've no real interest in this just being about you. For me, it was just a starting point into a potentially interesting diversion into how privilege is acquired, or not, and the role education plays in that.
I guess that's my academic area of interest, so was enjoying reading the spat tbh.