So there's a friendly tomorrow night at the new Cray Wanderers ground on the Sidcup by-pass...
Not sure I'll make it but I'm tempted to have a look. It's a pain to get to unless you're driving or getting a cab.
The nearest station is New Eltham, then across the traffic lights and down Footscray Road, turn right into Thaxted Road, walk to the end, over the footbridge - your last and only chance to cross the road - and then walk along the A20 past (ahem) Mr Mulligan's Dino Golf Course. Presumably the floodlights will make it obvious!
Pubs - your best bet is the Rusty Bucket in Eltham, then a 321 bus will take you to Thaxted Road - walk to the end, over the footbridge, etc.
(Closer to the ground the only one that's a straightforward walk would be The Beehive, near New Eltham station but in the wrong direction - standard suburban lager boozer by all accounts.)