changing your life

[Awesome Wells]

How do you know whether you will get a lift or not unless you try?

It isn't a question of try: if you can't get back what do you suggest? Grow a pair of wings?

It's a stupid suggestion because you cannot rely on someone out of the blue giving you a lift to and from. There is nothing to be gained by focussing on such ludicrous suggestions that are totally impractical in the real world.

 

[extra dry]

He knows he won't get a lift...all the locals know him and as soon as they see him with his thumb out they will be thinking 'not f**king likely you moaning, negative tosser...'

 

[madzone]

wow, please continue to take what I said completely out of fucking context! That's always helpful! ffs, what's the point of that?

I sometimes wonder if you're on a wind up

It's everyone elses fault isn't it? How dare they give you advice when you asked for it

Get off your arse and do something to chnge your own life - no-one else will do it for you - they couldn't even if they wanted to. Stop playing the fucking victim and get on with the life you've got.

How about volunteering overseas for some people with real probelms? You have clean water, a roof over your head, access to free healthcare. Stop fucking wingeing.

 

[madzone]

So instead of actually reading what was written, you've just decided to make up some shit. How clever of you.

If i can't afford to study, what would you suggest? Rob a bank perhaps? No let's just equate that to can't be bothered, because that's the same isn't it! Are you really that stupid?

You can't study on the dole, for the reasons I explained. Do you think I'm going to start doing something that I will not be able to finish because the Dole won't allow you? I was told point fucking blank that anything you do including study will detract from your availability for work. What do you want me to say? This is what i was fucking TOLD by the personal adviser after I said i wanted TO study! Don't fucking tell me I can't then be bothered!

You have the fucking gall to tell me I can't be bothered to get help after I have contacted the CAB? How fucking dare you! you stupid piece of cunt. How fucking dare you? What else do you suggest? THere is NO other way I can contact them. But oh no suddenly it's another excuse for you to criticise me? I'm so sorry I don't have a personal CAB on hand in my kitchen ready to answer my every query. But unfortunately their service is extremely limited and email is the only reliable way.

Where did I ever say I couldn't be bothered to go into town and look? You aren't even bothering to listen or read are you? You're just another ignorant fuckwit resorting to the same tired shit as the rest of these idiots. Never mind that I can't afford to travel more than once a week, somehow I'm magically going to find a pot of gold that will enable me to pay for bus fares once I start a job?

No, instead of actually addressing these genuine concerns, you can make yourself feel good by dismissing them out of hand so as to have a convenient excuse to resort to ignorant abuse.

Go fuck yourself.

6 pages of epople trying their best to help you and you just giving loads of abuse back

How about you go fuck yourself?

 

[Awesome Wells]

You've done nothing on this thread but tell people why their suggestions will not work for you.

People will not go on and on giving you sympathy and suggestions when they are just thrown back in their faces.

You really do continue to miss the point entirely don't you.

You really just don't even try and read what I said.

If a suggestion doesn't work, then of course I'm going to say so? What on earth is going to be gained by pretending otherwise? If I can't afford a bus tick, for example, how will that be resolved by pretending? Do you think the bus driver will accept pretend money? Wake the fuck up!

 

[Awesome Wells]

6 pages of epople trying their best to help you and you just giving loads of abuse back

How about you go fuck yourself?

No, 6 pages of ignorant morons getting abusive because they cannot understand how their ideas are not workable - and then resorting to abuse in the process.

THAT is the point you continually miss.

Try fucking reading.

 

[madzone]

You really do continue to miss the point entirely don't you.

Mrs Miggins and everyone else on the thread apparently.

So, who has given you a useable suggestion on this thread AW?

 

[MooChild]

So instead of actually reading what was written, you've just decided to make up some shit. How clever of you.

If i can't afford to study, what would you suggest? Rob a bank perhaps? No let's just equate that to can't be bothered, because that's the same isn't it! Are you really that stupid?

Lets try once more.
You can afford to study, the OU does discounts based on your income, you would probably qualify for grants and fees towards study. I did, and i am working.

You can't study on the dole, for the reasons I explained. Do you think I'm going to start doing something that I will not be able to finish because the Dole won't allow you? I was told point fucking blank that anything you do including study will detract from your availability for work. What do you want me to say? This is what i was fucking TOLD by the personal adviser after I said i wanted TO study! Don't fucking tell me I can't then be bothered!

If you do part time study in your own time, it doesn't count towards looking for work. My dole office told me this, while i was on the dole AND studying.

You have the fucking gall to tell me I can't be bothered to get help after I have contacted the CAB? How fucking dare you! you stupid piece of cunt. How fucking dare you? What else do you suggest? THere is NO other way I can contact them. But oh no suddenly it's another excuse for you to criticise me? I'm so sorry I don't have a personal CAB on hand in my kitchen ready to answer my every query. But unfortunately their service is extremely limited and email is the only reliable way.

I'm not even going to try to answer this.

Where did I ever say I couldn't be bothered to go into town and look? You aren't even bothering to listen or read are you? You're just another ignorant fuckwit resorting to the same tired shit as the rest of these idiots. Never mind that I can't afford to travel more than once a week, somehow I'm magically going to find a pot of gold that will enable me to pay for bus fares once I start a job?

I'm not being funny here, but if i was in that position, i'd be walking to work for the first week until i got paid. Then i'd get a bus pass. If this is too hard for you, i'd suggest the waiting for the pixies option i provided earlier.

No, instead of actually addressing these genuine concerns, you can make yourself feel good by dismissing them out of hand so as to have a convenient excuse to resort to ignorant abuse.

Go fuck yourself.

You're the one thats fucked mate, not me. I've been where you are and got out of it, what are you going to DO about your situation (apart from throw abuse at everyone who offers suggestions).

 

[madzone]

No, 6 pages of ignorant morons getting abusive because they cannot understand how their ideas are not workable - and then resorting to abuse in the process.

THAT is the point you continually miss.

Try fucking reading.

Are you this angry in real life?

 

[Awesome Wells]

I sometimes wonder if you're on a wind up

It's everyone elses fault isn't it? How dare they give you advice when you asked for it

Get off your arse and do something to chnge your own life - no-one else will do it for you - they couldn't even if they wanted to. Stop playing the fucking victim and get on with the life you've got.

How about volunteering overseas for some people with real probelms? You have clean water, a roof over your head, access to free healthcare. Stop fucking wingeing.

what on earth are you talking about 'everyone else's fault'? What does that mean? What is 'everyone elses fault', and where did I ever suggest that 'it' is? Good grief!

It isn't about playing the victim, that's just stupid language that means nothing. You are the one implying that I'm being negative when I am simply telling you that suggestion that are impractical - are impractical? Would you rather people lied? Does that make it better? Of course fucking not!

I get on with my life everyday. This 'victim' stuff is just pop psychology bollocks.

 

[madzone]

you stupid piece of cunt.

Just seen this.

Nice

 

[madzone]

what on earth are you talking about 'everyone else's fault'? What does that mean? What is 'everyone elses fault', and where did I ever suggest that 'it' is? Good grief!

It isn't about playing the victim, that's just stupid language that means nothing. You are the one implying that I'm being negative when I am simply telling you that suggestion that are impractical - are impractical? Would you rather people lied? Does that make it better? Of course fucking not!

I get on with my life everyday. This 'victim' stuff is just pop psychology bollocks.

Oh, get a job you twat

 

[Awesome Wells]

Are you this angry in real life?

What an absurd question.

 

[Awesome Wells]

Just seen this.

Nice

what's 'nice' got to do with it? Why are you even responding? You've already made it clear you didn't want to continue and even then you can't be bothered to actually read what was posted, so why waste people's and your's time?

 

[madzone]

What an absurd question.

Are you?

 

[Awesome Wells]

I'm not even going to try to answer this.

Says it all.

 

[tom_craggs]

To me by far the most useful suggestion in this thread is that you might want to look at ways of overcoming depression, whether with a doctor, or family or friends or help from elsewhere because it sounds very much like you are depressed.

 

[MooChild]

If you are on qualifying benefits and have an income of 10k

Financial Support
For students resident in England or Northern Ireland.

From the information you have provided it appears that you could be eligible for the maximum award which would be:

Your fees paid up to a value of £785 for courses totalling 30 points or more but less than 90 credit points

A course grant of £255 to help with study expenses.

If you intend to study a course where the fees are higher than £785, for example Business or Law, we will top up the government fee grant. This top up will usually cover the whole fee if you get a full award or a proportion of the fee if you get a partial award. You will only receive this additional support for one such high fee course per year.

Once you have chosen your course(s) you will need to make a formal application for financial support and meet a number of eligibility conditions before your award can be finalised. The application form and guidance notes can be downloaded from the on-line registration facility within the courses and qualifications web site.

You may also be interested in our register now, pay later facility to help with the payment of course fees.

Note: These figures are based upon rates for the academic year beginning 1st September 2008. If you intend to study sooner the award payable may be less.

This information was provided on 01/10/2008.

So, explain to me how you cannot afford to study, when it would be free.

 

[christonabike]

I know this may be an absolutely absurd suggestion, but here goes:

would your mates be willing to help you out?

 

[MooChild]

Says it all.

Yeah, thats the spirit, ignore everything else i've written and pick me up on not responding to verbal abuse...

 

[MooChild]

Also from Here

What if I am doing an Open University course?

You still claim Jobseeker’s Allowance if you study with the Open University. The coursework you do for the Open University should not affect whether or not you can work because it is for people who study part-time.

You can go on one residential week for each course with the Open University as long as it is an important part of the programme. We will still class you as being ready and looking for work. You must tell your adviser if you do this kind of course.

So, not only would it be free, you could still claim benefits.

Imagine that, both of your reasons taken apart with 30 seconds of googling...

Still want to abuse me? or are you going to DO something about your situation?

 

[extra dry]

friends..this guy having friends...actual non imaginary friends...I bet he doesn't or they live too far away or it is a crazy suggestion because who uses their friends for help?

 

[madzone]

Where/when do you do your food shopping AW?

 

[Mrs Miggins]

You really do continue to miss the point entirely don't you.

What is the point then?
You've asked people for advice, they have given you all sorts of suggestions, all of which, for one reason or another, you say won't work for you.

You really just don't even try and read what I said.

I've read the entire thread thank you very much and it's all excuses.

If a suggestion doesn't work, then of course I'm going to say so? What on earth is going to be gained by pretending otherwise? If I can't afford a bus tick, for example, how will that be resolved by pretending? Do you think the bus driver will accept pretend money? Wake the fuck up!

Have you TRIED though? I don't believe you have. And if you don't end up getting a lift, and you don't have bus fare money, you'll have to walk.

 

[hermitical]

I'll ask you again, what part of Somerset are you in?

 

[hermitical]

you'll have to walk.

walk...WALK, 10 miles??

and back??

you stupid piece of cunt

 

[Mrs Miggins]

you stupid piece of cunt

Can I be the clitoris?

 

[hermitical]

well, if you must be flicky...sorry, picky

 

[MooChild]

Any update AW?

 

[zenie]

what's 'nice' got to do with it? Why are you even responding? You've already made it clear you didn't want to continue and even then you can't be bothered to actually read what was posted, so why waste people's and your's time?

Oh the irony!

You've not done yourself any favours AW