Sorry, I'm not just trying to be argumentative but I'm not clear as to what you mean.
You get the pro-life talking about “killing babies” etc. and I think that is abhorrent, but I don’t think using a term like “abort an unborn child” is quite in that bracket, and I think we have to accept that different people will draw different lines with this.
I do think that translating everything into Latinate biological language can obscure the decision that is being made, and I think it should be a carefully considered and frankly
difficult decision (which it has been for every woman I’ve known who has had any non pill-based abortion). And if it’s an easy decision I’d hope that was entirely based on the factors overwhelmingly pushing in one direction.
And then when the decision has been made it should be entirely between the woman concerned and medical staff and the rest of the world should really butt out.
There is an impulse in the pro-choice lobby to trivialise the life of a foetus. I agree that the choice must start and end with the woman concerned, but I don’t agree that either side of the choice is trivial.
I also don’t agree that it’s ever my call. I’m not denying anyone any rights whatsoever.
Tbh I feel quite lucky that it’s not a call I’ll ever have to make.
Sometimes pro-choice gets conflated with pro-abortion. I think abortion is always a case of us mitigating something that has gone wrong (even if something as trivial as a contraception failure). So it’s good that the mitigation is there, but like when, say, amputating an infected limb (sorry I can’t think of a better analogy right now), it doesn’t mean the amputation is something to celebrate.