donkyboy
Crazy Cat/Fox man
Makes great pics doesn't he!
he is very photogenic
Makes great pics doesn't he!
If I ever win the Lottery, or indeed ever play it, I'm going to fund a study into why tummy-tickling is such a divisive subject. I get mauled by my own little bundle of fluff, even though she leads me on; on the other hand earlier on today, whilst getting the bins in from outside, one of next door's was only too happy to roll over and let me tickle her big fat gut.
It's basically feline Marmite, but with more violence.
Any advice on how to make friends with them?
I find sitting there and pretending you're not interested makes cats pay more attention to you for some reason.
yes. possibly stating the obvious to many on this thread, but that's pretty much true
from what i've read / observed in an amateur capacity -
cats and dogs speak a completely different body language.
looking straight at a cat, making a fuss, trying too hard to attract their attention are all very off-putting to cats.
this is why cats often ignore the person who is trying to make friends with cat, and go and sit on the lap of the person who doesn't like / is allergic to cats who is hoping that cat won't notice them. (it's not that cats are deliberately trying to annoy that person)
some cats are more nervous of men than women - nobody's quite sure why - may simply be men being larger / having heavier footsteps, may be past encounters with a dickhead, traditionally vets were more likely to be men (and may set off bad memories) although not sure that's the case any more.
a cat is more likely to approach someone who's sitting down. for a particularly nervous cat, sitting / lying on the floor near them (but not so close you're a threat) means they are more likely to approach (there's no guarantees)
sitting on the floor reading a newspaper offers them a chance to come and sit on the newspaper...
Jakey had a lovely early upbringing in the same home as Sonic
So Sonic went back to the vet so they could take blood (postponed from Saturday as they didn't have sufficient staff to deal with a strong wriggly one!) - all went smoothly, they got the samples they needed and he wasn't too stressed, one of the nurses simply cuddled him with her hand gently over his face, he's a very sweet cat and tends to appreciate cuddles even from strangers and he knows the nurse a little bit so it was all good.
Results should be available Friday, vet will phone me when they get them from the hospital.
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Lil’ Bob spots an Amazon delivery next door
Chloe gets up and close to Miko. Like the look he gives at the end.
"they are getting a BOX. want."
awww
have you established if he has a home or what?
He belongs to a family a few doors from me. Thought he was a feral cat when I first spotted him August 2020 going through one of those metal bins. Then by chance was speaking to a woman walking her dog who told me he belongs to her. Here is our first encounter. He ran as I approached.
or vice versa
I was afraid to ask how much the ultrasound was going to cost
I am beyond frustrated about the call I just had from the vet to discuss the results of Sonic's blood tests which came back more or less normal.
This vet hasn't actually seen Sonic, was just the one on duty today (regular vet is away or something so other vets from the vet group are filling in) and thought the issue being investigated was his congestion, said she wanted to refer him for a CT scan, rhinoscopy, and nose and throat cultures.
He's had nasal congestion for must be going on 3 years now and ALL THESE TESTS HAVE ALREADY BEEN DONE - inconclusive, congestion was deemed therefore to be allergy related as everything else was ruled out and allergy tests on cats aren't very accurate, so we stopped prodding and poking him. It hasn't got any worse, it hasn't got any better, it's a bit messy but it doesn't seem to be causing him any distress, and I don't want the same lot of tests repeated!
I didn't take him to the vet about the congestion, which is a long standing condition and should be in his fucking notes, but she admitted she hadn't read his notes. I told her we brought him in NOT about that, but about weight loss over the last 2 or 3 months despite him eating normally, which is somewhat more fucking urgent and potentially life threatening than a bit of snot.
She seemed surprised by this and had another look at the test results - nothing in there to indicate a cause for weight loss, next step would be an ultrasound, would I like a referral for that instead of the CT scan/rhinoscopy etc.
YES FUCKING PLEASE! (Please note I did not say this to the vet, I was cross but polite during the conversation).
So I just had a call from the hospital saying he'd been referred for an abdominal ultrasound and we booked him in for Monday morning so they are treating it as urgent - bingo looks like we are on the right track. I do have to pick up a prescription from our local vet for "something for the congestion" but I won't start that until after Monday now. If they give him something that reduces the snot then I'm certainly willing to try it.
Now I am anxious that I am going to go in Monday and they won't know why he's booked in for an ultrasound when he clearly has a congestion issue
Pet insurance should cover that, right?
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