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I am looking after my friend's cat while she moves house.

I have never owned a cat. So far he has kept us awake all night because he couldnt go out, bitten me and the kids and he just pissed all over mr p's limited edition vinyl singles. (He is going to be furious.)

He has 2 litter trays btw- and he looked me in the eye while he did it.

When my friend asks whether he has been good, i think i am going to have to lie, arent i?

It's a good job he's cute. :mad:
 
I am looking after my friend's cat while she moves house.

I have never owned a cat. So far he has kept us awake all night because he couldnt go out, bitten me and the kids and he just pissed all over mr p's limited edition vinyl singles. (He is going to be furious.)

He has 2 litter trays btw- and he looked me in the eye while he did it.

When my friend asks whether he has been good, i think i am going to have to lie, arent i?

It's a good job he's cute. :mad:

Lol, Dylan is good as gold with us. Rarely scratches furniture or carpet, stays downstairs at night without a peep, never wees or poos anywhere but his litter tray and outside. A couple of years ago my sister looked after him while we went on holiday for a couple of weeks. She never gave us full details but it was clear he was such a little shit with her that we know never to ask her to do that again!!!
 
I've been trying to put a brave face on it, but we took Sonic to the vet Tuesday afternoon for a routine pedicure.

The nurse gives him a once over and checks his weight at the same time - he has lost a lot of weight since his last vet visit in December and she was so concerned that she had the vet have a look at him. The vet couldn't see anything obviously wrong but wants me to bring Sonic back in a month for another checkup (sooner if anything goes obviously wrong with him) and if he has lost any more weight to book some blood tests and then maybe further tests to see what (if anything) is wrong.

Not ashamed to admit that I broke down sobbing in the waiting room, it feels like what happened with Radar all over again

(((Epona))) hopefully it's nothing or if it's something, easily treated x

Also I know it is a minor consideration compared to the Coronavirus crisis - but does anyone else feel that they have lost agency in the veterinary care and treatment of their animals as a result of social distancing and COVID restrictions on interacting meaning we can't go in to see the vet with our animals any more?

I feel as though I am getting crucial health advice and consultations for my cats relayed to me via telephone calls or via a receptionist, I am unable to point any particular issues out to the vet in person.

Don't get me wrong, I know they are doing the best they can under difficult circumstances that are out of their control (like the rest of us) - but I feel as though my involvement in the health care of my animals is pretty much sidelined at this point. I drop them off, the vet sees the animal but not me, I can't therefore ask or answer any questions, the animal is then delivered back to me. (And basically when you are taking a pet to the vet, it is IMO important to talk to the vet to let them know that the pet is eating less/peeing more/soft stools/odd behaviour etc which comes about in the course of conversation with the vet) Nowadays a consultation may involve the vet phoning me while I am waiting outside, but I am hearing impaired and used to lip read (hahahaha). I wouldn't want to get bad news over the phone for sure.

This is NOT a criticism of my vet surgery, I think they do a good job and I am happy with them, but I am seriously fed up that I haven't been able to discuss any of my pets' healthcare concerns face to face with my vet for over a year now. I am wondering whether there is a better way to do this (if I can't be physically present) - zoom conference for the consultation or something?

Yes, hated taking Dylan for his boosters and check up, and couldn't go in with him. They didn't ask any questions about how he was so I wonder how thorough the check up could be really.

RIP my beautiful little Pops, I am going to miss you so much.
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RIP Pops :( xx
 
Thank you all for your kind words. I couldn't really say anything yesterday as I was too upset.

Pops developed a lump under her tongue, which turned out to be the most aggressive cancer that cats can get. She couldn't eat properly, her mouth was almost constantly bleeding and she couldn't close her mouth at all. The vet told me that they couldn't operate, as the lump had gone down her throat and even a specialist couldn't have gotten to it. After a very tearful discussion, we made the decision to put her to sleep, to save her from more suffering.

We all sat out in the garden for the afternoon, before taking her. She was on my lap with my partner holding her paw. I'm not going to lie, I think everybody in the vets heard us crying.

She was with me for 15 years and I held her in one hand when I picked her up all those years ago. She's been in my finance's life for 6 years and he couldn't hold back the tears either. She was beautiful, affectionate, always there when you felt a bit blue giving you kisses and her timing had us in stitches on many occasion.

Working from home this past year, her sitting on her chair in the kitchen with me, it's going to be hard to adjust to her not being around.

Anyway, I have lovely memories with her and will continue to come here for my cat fix ❤
 
Despite behaving all haughty and incensed at the intrusion when Mrs Fish brings her wee dog around, She livens-up considerably afterwards and spent much of yesterday and most of this morning determinedly guarding and re-scenting his "favourite" tussock, waiting to see if he is coming back! :D

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Despite behaving all haughty and incensed at the intrusion when Mrs Fish brings her wee dog around, She livens-up considerably afterwards and spent much of yesterday and most of this morning determinedly guarding and re-scenting his "favourite" tussock, waiting to see if he is coming back! :D

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You sure you haven't got a wild bobcat there? She's gorgeous, really looks like original wild cat type deal, stunning!
 
Thank you all for your kind words. I couldn't really say anything yesterday as I was too upset.

Pops developed a lump under her tongue, which turned out to be the most aggressive cancer that cats can get. She couldn't eat properly, her mouth was almost constantly bleeding and she couldn't close her mouth at all. The vet told me that they couldn't operate, as the lump had gone down her throat and even a specialist couldn't have gotten to it. After a very tearful discussion, we made the decision to put her to sleep, to save her from more suffering.

We all sat out in the garden for the afternoon, before taking her. She was on my lap with my partner holding her paw. I'm not going to lie, I think everybody in the vets heard us crying.

She was with me for 15 years and I held her in one hand when I picked her up all those years ago. She's been in my finance's life for 6 years and he couldn't hold back the tears either. She was beautiful, affectionate, always there when you felt a bit blue giving you kisses and her timing had us in stitches on many occasion.

Working from home this past year, her sitting on her chair in the kitchen with me, it's going to be hard to adjust to her not being around.

Anyway, I have lovely memories with her and will continue to come here for my cat fix ❤

Mate that's awful. I (and others here) know exactly what you are going through and wish you all the best. A sudden terminal diagnosis is utterly heartbreaking and you just feel so utterly helpless. I don't think the shock and pain ever really go completely, they just over time feel a little less sharp around the edges of them, if that makes sense.

Be good to yourself and to one another and have a cry if you need to. Love to you all xx
 
You sure you haven't got a wild bobcat there? She's gorgeous, really looks like original wild cat type deal, stunning!

She would be she softest/sweetest most home/people-loving little wildcat you'd ever seen then..! :D

My last cat BD had possibly some of the signs of being a "Kellas cat" - which is some degree of a domestic/wildcat crossbreed. Notably his size, "alpha-cat" temperament and willingness to take-on anything, prodigious hunting abilities and particularly the amount of guard hairs running through his fur - Wildcats and their close relations have a much larger number compared to domestic cats - and being black, it was easy to see them all!
 
She would be she softest/sweetest most home/people-loving little wildcat you'd ever seen then..! :D

My last cat BD had possibly some of the signs of being a "Kellas cat" - which is some degree of a domestic/wildcat crossbreed. Notably his size, "alpha-cat" temperament and willingness to take-on anything, prodigious hunting abilities and particularly the amount of guard hairs running through his fur - Wildcats and their close relations have a much larger number compared to domestic cats - and being black, it was easy to see them all!

One of the things that is notable about your lovely cat is that her tail is what would be referred to as a "stumpy" in terms of bobcats - it is a bit shorter than usual cats but not a full bobtail and the tail seems to be a bit thicker at the end - which would in bobcat terms indicate that she was heterozygous for the bobtail gene.
 
I've just ordered some feliway plug ins. Ozzie's fastidious grooming has gone into the over grooming territory and her rump has got to the stage where you can see skin because she's taken all the fur off.

Nothing on the skin that we can see, no reaction whe stroking her there and she's fleaed up (although she hates it so much she's still jumpy and grumpy with us from doing it on wednesday).

We'll see how the feliway goes for a few weeks before thinking about a vets visit.
 
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My Radar used to go under the sofa and then lie on his back and pull himself along around the edges of it upside down going like the clappers, really fast and just zooming around the bottom of it doing 45 degree angle turns upside down when he got to each corner - that cat was just so full of life and mischief!.
 
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