So, it's nearly 2 months since Radar had his surgery.
The wee horror is finally starting to look more normal as opposed to a refugee from some sort of research laboratory.
He's put on some weight - he's still a bit under where he should be and looks a little too skinny, but no longer looks and feels dangerously emaciated - his spine and hips aren't nearly as prominent, and he's starting to regain some muscle mass. He is still kind of bald in some places (the worst is on his shoulder where he had a transdermal opiate patch, but that is starting to see some fur regrowth now, although a bit patchy).
He's eating wet like a complete pig, I'm feeding him every time he wants food and sometimes when he doesn't ask for it
I don't know why he seems unable to eat dry food still, when I offer him a small amount he looks really excited but pushes a nugget around the bowl, picks it up and drops it, then pushes it round a bit more. If this doesn't improve in time I may ask for the vet to investigate whether there are any lingering jaw issues as a surgical complication. He is enthusiastic about wet food though, eating sufficient amounts, and clearly a happy cat now
I went to give him a cuddle earlier, he's so sweet and loving. He's not once reacted badly towards me or Nate over everything he has been through - the stress, the hospital stays, the surgeries, the drugged up confusion at times (which btw cats do not seem to enjoy opiate pain relief, it makes them a little agitated and anxious), the repeated long journeys in a carrier, being held for tube feeding and having bandage changes.
He's the best cat ever, he sleeps right next to me, rubs his head on my cheek and goes to sleep in my arms. He also grabs my head with his claws when he wants to be let under the duvet, the little shit
I got a little tearful while I was giving him a cuddle, just out of relief that I have my lovely little monster back. I know he won't live forever, but I'm so relieved that it wasn't his time on this occasion. I hope that none of us has to go through anything like that again.