Iris' shelter got in touch with me today. They still had Dottie on their waiting list
Anyway, now Dottie has gone it means Jemima can jump in her place.
I'm to go and pick up a trap from them on Tuesday, and then, once I've wrangled Jemima in to it (which may involve leaving her in my kitchen overnight, which will please no one involved), I'm to take her to the vet inside Pets at Home, who they do lots of business with apparently, who will scan for a chip and check her sex and so on. If she's a girl they can probably take her now. If she's an in-tact boy, they'll look at neutering her (him!) but will have to release her (him!) because they have lots of mothers and kittens still, and she (he!) will still smell like a tom for a while after. If she (he!) is a neutered boy, I don't know what happens next. Either way, I'm to phone her while I'm at the vets to let her know, and we can work out what happens next.
This would all be easier if I could drive
I'll be sad to see her go, but more than anything she needs a warm lap to curl up on at night and I can't give her that.