story
Changing the facts
What I mean is that Whiteness becomes the default to 'otherness' so the conversation is rarely about what it means to be White, how White people are etc.
Whiteness is not examined or named/labelled in the same way Blackness/otherness is. The focus is Black/Brown/other people are x, y, z, on perceived, generalised difference, which in itself implies anything un-named as White because the gaze is 'White'. It creates absolute positions and representations.
Prevalent/institutionalised/accepted/internalised, yet for the most part unexamined and deconstructed by many.
Already in bed so not a full response. Hope it makes sense and maybe I can get back to this tomorrow.
Thanks for this. None of it's simple, eh. I hadn't thought of it in this way before.
I've actually struggled to find a shape for this idea over the years.
I look white, sometimes I'm told I look Spanish or Italian, but I have Arab blood and when, for a period of time, I had a Syrian friend we were often mistaken for siblings.
I suppose I am white, but I'm a quarter Arabic, so I suppose I'm not really "white".
To be honest, I'm not even sure how to think/talk about this; it really feels like a non-issue in some ways (perhaps because I mostly look white European), but very important in other ways.
When I have to tick the box on forms, I hover between mixed and white, but then I tick white, because I'm not sure how to own my Arab blood as a person who appears to be white.