I went to a private screening recently and they showed this very interestig documentary, by a scandi filmmaker I believe... It's about Ryuichi, a 44-year old japanese man who works as an actor and problemsolver, basically his business idea is 'rent a fake relative' to people without families or with the need for a stand-in (one girl needs her father's permission to move in with her boyfriend before marriage for instance, she knows her real dad would never consent to such a thing, so in the solemn meeting at a restaurant where she brings her boyfriend to meet her "father", the father is in fact Ryuichi! Also, at a wedding the bride's entire entourage are extras hired from Ryuichi's firm.)
First you feel a bit sorry for the desperate people who are in need of such a service, then as the film explores mr. Ryuichi's private life a bit more I felt more sorry for him: His marriage is in a mess, his wife have chucked him out of their bedroom where she now sleeps with their oldest son, having exiled him to a mattress in the son's bedroom for over four years, the family barely talk or spend time together, he spends more time out on his private affairs than with his kids and wife, at dinner he just watches tv while sat at the table with his family, his family doesn't know about his acting business or what he does for a living and things are tense, he seems like a very unhappy man... You feel sorry both for his famliy and for him, he's just as unhappy as the people he works for... I was intrigued by this extremely intricate and alien world, where reputation seems to be everything and losing face or exposing yourself doesn't seem to be a valid option...
I'd love to watch this again (especially as I spent a lot of the time twitching nervously, hiding my face in my hands, as some of the situations were so uncomfortable to watch- the time where some of the extras in the wedding stutter and give the wrong fake name when presenting themselves, for instance... it's painful to watch.)