"Attitudes" like mine? God forbid I might object to having a dozen pushcairs taking up space and causing a dangerous situation. Isn't amazing how everyone used to cope in the past when people FOLDED pushchairs. People are too lazy these days.
So my partner should repeat the actions that led to the toddler falling off the train? I've outlined in clear detail the consequence of trying to exit a virgin pendalino train on a busy station with a well behaved small child whilst trying to be socially considerate. You have ignored it and continued to outline some bizarre situation where every train has 12 pushchairs on it, a situation I don't think I've ever seen.
The train I travelled on
today had dangerous amounts of luggage in the bike rack. There was therefore no space for a bike or a pushchair. Anyone with a pushchair would had to carry it throughout the journey. This makes it difficult to control a small child, which is a physical task up to a certain age, however strict you are. It makes it impossible to hold two children's hands. I didn't see ANYONE behaving impolitely or inconsiderately - I saw a lot of people looking fed up and miserable and doing there best to shuffle round in a crowded compartment.
I had my boy with me and I carried him and played some silly word games because he was frightened when people kept needing to get past and also because he wanted to press buttons and I, as a responsible, considerate person didn't want him leaning accross people to do so. Had I had his pushchair, I wouldn't have been able to carry him and would have had to shout at him or just grip him tightly by the wrist whilst he flailed and whined. He'd have cried ultimately, which would also have made the journey unpleasant for others.
How would you like me, or anyone else to cope with this? Folding the pushchair isn't the point ffs!
How would you suggest someone who needed to cycle from or to the station react to the fact there is no space for a single bike? - perhaps someone who couldn't drive for medical reasons, or maybe economic reasons? - Lets assume they aren't so selfish as to simply choose to cycle heaven forbid! Maybe they were someone going to work who didn't have the option of waiting for the next train?
What's your advice here?
This train is like this EVERY TIME. I'm not outlining an exceptional situation. It's like this everytime and for the duration of its journey. Yet every time a fixed three car unit turns up. I accept that hypothetically a longer and better designed multiple unit could be fine, but it's exactly the type of medium distance service that would once (in the fairly recent past) have been loco hauled and now is replaced by a woefully inadequate multiple unit.
What I don't understand is - why defend badly designed cramped trains run for greed with some spurious pseudo sociological bullshit about selfish mothers or 'the good old days' and then when a reasoned argument is placed against yours, do it again!