Hello,
i am new to this forum, and probably won't be reading it again so i won't see any replies. I am a regular reader of Onar's blog, call myself a libertarian, and am also a buddhist (i mention this because it means i believe in among other things, freedom and the value of life). He linked to this thread in one of his posts, and I have read through most of the posts in this thread to see if what he was saying about the level of discussion here was true. I am aware that most people wouldn't behave like they do on the internet if they were actually conversing face to face, but I still have a few comments i'd like to share.
- There is an awful lot of profanity and name-calling here. As an observer, i'd like to point out that calling someone names or swearing to someone doesn't actually tell me anything about that someone.
It does, however, tell me alot about the state of mind of the person doing the swearing. Ad hominem attacks merely tells an intelligent observer that you are out of ideas, angry, manipulative etc. If you want to be taken seriously, the first thing to do is to stop the name-calling and swearing.
Scoring cheap points with your peer group might seem funny to you, but not to everyone.
- Pointing out spelling errors or complaining about the english (or french) skills of someone who has a different mother tongue is only really valid if it has anything to do with the arguement. If not, it simply comes across as petty and infantile. Quibbling about minor details is usually detrimental to any discussion.
- Onar is known here in Norway among alot of liberals and libertarians. Unfortunately (for me anyway), Norway is a socialist corporativist state like most others in Europe, and the ideas of individual freedom are limited here. Most of whom call themselves liberals identify with right-wing socialists. Onar is working to change that, and i applaud his work, honesty and integrity.
- Talking about ideas is almost always interesting. Talking about people as "nobody" or "loons" does not help me understand your ideas. It does make me think that you are people who have closed your minds to other ideas.
- Keeping a level of emotional detachment can be very helpful. Don't take everything personally, as only you can make yourself feel bad. If someone says/types something that makes you feel angry, it is not that someone's fault. You choose to be angry or not. You choose how you respond. It isn't always easy, but it is still a choice. Sorry about that last one, it's the buddhist in me who wants people to be free from their anger
I wish you all the best, and hope that you realize that we all want the same thing even if we differ on the belief of the best path to take towards that goal; To be happy and free.