I think teuchter that you need to understand that people always have reasons which apply to them perfectly validly. You cannot live you life (necessarily) by the book - unless you are a Calvinist or a Catholic - which you yourself may very well be.
Have you ever done long commutes, or had to move to suit an employer? Just asking.
Of course I understand that.
I moved to London because that's where the work is for me - fortunately for me there are lots of other reasons that I'm happy to live here where the work is.
I grew up somewhere (rural scotland) where public transport is virtually non-existent. I am vividly aware of the fact that in many places many people are dependant on their cars for work and for lots of other things. I did, for a relatively short period, work up there doing a job that involved a 20 mile commute. I did not have a car and my only option was to use the rickety local bus (with a ten or fifteen minute walk along some roads without footpaths or street lighting at the end). If you missed the bus in the morning the next one wasn't for about three hours and if you missed the one in the evening around 5.30 your only remaining option was hitchhiking as there wasn't a later one. The bus ride took nearly twice as long as the journey by car because it looped around various villages on the way. I'm not claiming personal hardship here, because that was not a long term job for me and I am in any case fortunate enough to be able to find work that pays well enough that had I decided to remain in rural scotland I could have been able to afford a car. But I wasn't the only one on that bus - there were others for whom that was their long term transport situation.
My reaction to that situation is that something is wrong - we have created a society that is too dependant on indivudually owned transport. Any one who either can't afford a car or can't drive (which includes lots of elderly people) are very limited in their mobility and access to all sorts of things. And there are all the other negative consequences of car dependancy, in that kind of place, which I was and am very aware of - not at all unusual to know of friends or family members who are injured or worse in road accidents. Sometimes the result of impatience or tiredness during the many miles of driving to or from work every year, sometimes drink driving by teenagers who've driven to the pub because that's the only way to get there. The worry when family members are late to arrive home and you start to speculate what might have happened on their journey.
I am describing this to try and explain where my feelings about car dependancy come from - it's not out of ignorance about the travel options and real life situations of others - it comes from a pretty close understanding of the real life effects of living in a car-orientated society if you yourself don't drive (and even if you do).
I have to try and explain this every time I get into discussions about what to do about transport in rural or semi rural areas. The solutions are not straightforward in those cases for lots of reasons. There, there's a strong argument for much increased investment in public transport.
But we are talking about London here, where things are very different. It's arguably the only place in the UK where you can really live without a car and not be at a big disadvantage. So there's much less reason to worry about the consequences of making using a private car a little bit less convenient. I know that many people depend on their vehicles for work and trade. I understand that. But there are big benefits for eveyone in reducing the anount of motor traffic generally. And in my opinion they generally outweigh the relatively minor inconvenience caused to those who do need to use motor vehicles. I'm totally willing to recognise that sometimes that level of inconvenience goes beyond reasonable or minor and that in these cases the advantages of introducing a new measure might not be justified. But it's my observation that the level of inconvenience is nearly always massively over-estimated and overblown. This is why I've been trying to identify where the real problems are with this scheme. Various people complain about how it is going to take so much longer to drive to the hospital. But when you actually look at it, it's a minute or two of extra time on their journey. Or there are claims of havoc and chaos on side streets. But when I go and look for it, in most cases it just isn't there. I find that yes, there is a cut-through through an estate car park and people are using it, and yes that's a problem but it's not one that can't be solved with some adjustments. People complain they are "kettled" but the access on foot and by bus is just the same as it was before. There's been a definite issue on CHL with increased congestion, and I've said several times that if it turns out to be a long term one, then I'd accept that the scheme is not working properly because this congestion affects public transport, and it could genuinely add enough onto journey times that local businesses would plausibly see an impact. But I've also asked that we give it a bit of time, seeing as decades of previous experience has shown that these kind of changes need a decent amount of time to bed in before we can jump to any conclusions.
I'm neither Calvinist, Catholic or (I think) Stalinist. I just think there are big benefits for everyone in reducing the dominance of motor traffic in London generally. And as it happens the biggest benefits in many cases are for the least privileged. I am quite used to being accused of having no idea about people's real life situations because I frequently have these discussions. What I notice is that the people moaning about how their car journeys are impacted rarely have an answer to my question of how they expect (the majority of) people who don't have a car to go about their lives, dealing with the same real life issues - whether that's getting their kids to school or getting to hospital or getting home from work to spend time with their family in the evening - without the same benefit of private transport.