The last time I heard the word said aloud, it was spoken by some black guy in a Caribbean pub at the end of my street and I was a bit taken aback, tbh, but then again I guess he was saying 'nigga' as opposed to 'nigger', whatever difference that's supposed to make.
But what was I supposed to do, as a white woman, in a Caribbean pub, overhearing it being said by a black guy? Say, "erm, excuse me, would you mind awfully, but I'd rather you didn't use such offensive language in my presence, thank you very much". I didn't feel I could say anything. So I didn't.
[And while racist language has been likened to homophobic language in this thread, and you can go off on the tangential debate about what terms have or haven't been reclaimed and what is or isn't acceptable when spoken by whom, don't get me started on misogynistic language like bitches and hos, for example...
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...If I suddenly came across the word being used today, I'd probably freeze up too, out of sheer shock, to be honest. But I take tarannau's point -- I'm not fronting a television show which is recording and showing people using that kind of language. You do have a greater responsibility under those circumstances.
I didn't see the programme, but understand from comments here that it was spoken by a white person in southern USA.
I'm not quite sure how I would have reacted in such circumstances, either.
I'd like to think that I would have objected - a couple of months ago I 'de-friended' a former urbanite on Facebook because him and his mates were making lots of 'jokey' homophobic comments and I found that offensive, and if someone made similar racist comments, I'd cut them off and/or voice my objections.
But I wonder whether in similar circumstances my brain might have taken a bit of a time out. I mean, if I was filming something, and one of the random people appearing in the programme, in shot, said it, I'm not sure I'd be able to react quickly enough. I mean, I realise that a lot of people will have offensive redneck views, in private, and that's the historical legacy of slavery and racist laws and institutionalised racism in many of the US' southern states.
But I think I would be a bit taken aback to hear it spoken out loud, in public, on camera, and it would take a wee while for my brain to process it: Did s/he really say that? In public? On camera?
And then my brain would run a counter-argument, saying, No, surely, not, it's not the 1950s anymore, we're in 2009, Barack Obama is president, I must have misheard what I think they said, surely. I can't accuse them of being racist, what if I misheard it? I must have misheard it, mustn't I? Because surely no one in their right mind, whatever their redneck views in private, would say such a thing out loud, in public, on camera, in 2009.
And I'd possibly convince myself that I was mistaken, that I must have misheard.
And by the time that internal dialogue had run it's course, and if by that time I thought, nope, I wasn't mistaken, I really did hear that OMG! unbelievable!
Then the time to raise an objection would possibly have passed. I mean, you need to respond and object immediately. It would seem weird for five minutes to pass while your internal dialogue ran through the whole: Did I really hear that? Did s/he really say that? No, not possible, not in this day and age, but there are loads of rednecks round here, so it's possible, but surely not, not in public, not on camera, not so blatantly... and then to chase after the person and say: Oi! Btw, what you said five minutes ago was so out of order mate!
I didn't see it, but is it possible that Jamie Oliver maybe didn't hear properly or maybe didn't believe his own ears, and maybe it was only after playing back the sequence that they confirmed it had, in fact, been said, and then he reacted to that confirmation?