ViolentPanda
Hardly getting over it.
not quite sure what you're saying here.
i agree that it's not constructive for anyone to say "your view is not valid" or to try and close down alternative thought
but that's just what seems to be happening too much - white straight cis males trying to tell minorities that their view isn't valid because their politics is somehow less sound.
for example i (as a white male) can be against racism, but i don't think i've got the right to tell black people what they should think, or to say that their experience of being on the receiving end of racism isn't valid...
What I'm saying is that in some situations, a dominant (or wanna-be dominant) personality within a political group may (and in my experience does) use invalidation as a tool to promote their political beliefs as the "one true way", whatever the ethnic, sexual or gender derivation of that personality.