Bit odd to come on the forum saying I have heard but dont know, if your son is a paid employee.
I will try from my knowledge to to answer your questions and this is not to defend anything.
1 No board member gets paid for being on the board
2 I know of a few family who are employed as bar staff. However, that is as much because there is a shortage of reliable bar staff. Despite paying London Living Wage, staff to do this work are in short supply.
3. I don’t know what people get paid but I very much doubt it’s above or even at the market rate for the job. We have a General Manager a Club Secretary, a Media Manager & a bar manager plus a commercial manager who I believe is paid commission only. I know all spend a lot of time doing things outside their job role.
4 The stadium needs constant repairs
5 The upstairs space will take many thousands to bring back to use
6 The squash courts are wasted space
7 A lot of the businesses previously renting space folded in the pandemic
8 Unlike many other clubs we struggle to access grant funding because we always have a short lease and so don’t qualify
That’s why a new stadium is essential and only then will we have facilities that can be properly utilised.