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Pretty comfortable here right under your skin
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That's definitely noticeable. The lack of solidarity you might expect on what would appear to be really obvious cases needing community support is quite depressing. It seems that some people would rather defend the prices of some posh cocktail bar than support long term traders fighting for their livelihoods.
But were you totally untroubled by the context in which you were munching on your £5.50 ball of burrata cheese (as an indulgent precursor to your specialty pizza, no doubt, and washed back with something tasty?) If not, why not? Why did it not feel grim?
A lot of the toxicity and hostility derives from people feeling aggrieved at being painted as insufferably nasty, selfish or depraved by quite blatant hypocrites. Have a read about the narcissism of small differences. That's my guess anyway. But what would I know? I'm just a silly snowflake.
I suspect that some of the stuff that gets said here is simple kneejerk contrarianism (you're all saying that so screw you I'll say this etc).
But maybe some people are going out of their way to be a bit obnoxious so that they can build up a sort of defence to feeling at all uncomfortable whilst for instance downing cocktails opposite the barrier block:
Maybe I'm a silly snowflake but the thought of doing that is just grim, it would be no fun at all, because the inequality is so in your face. I'm not a cocktail person anyway but it would take some serious wilful blindness to be totally untroubled by the context in which you're sipping your sex on the beach.
Don't know if anywhere else in London is undergoing change quite as fast and as brutally as right here so its bound to be emotive defensive stuff, and not just for those who feel excluded but possibly for the 'usurpers' as well?
I'm confused Bimble. First you say this (which I agree with):
But then you say this:
Which is fairly offensive if you think about it - you are suggesting that those of us that like drinking cocktails are wilfully blind to inequality. And yet eating posh Italian cheese is apparently OK? But - oh dear - we are back then to the endless debate comparing one thing that people like to do with their spare cash with another - which is completely boring as you say.
Yes. I think I'm ignoring that on purpose instead of just missing it because it makes me feel a bit sick to admit that you're right. You're saying that a lot of the popularity of Brixton as a tourist destination / wild night out is a sort of vicarious thrill / poverty tourism?I think you're missing a supremely important point: Some of those sippers are there entirely to experience the context of which you speak. They're flaneurs, wafting through the city vicariously experiencing a version of "real life" that's divorced from their own. Others of those sippers simply don't give a shit about the context or the locale, except as a site for their revels.
oh shit Rushy, I hope you haven't just got banned for challenging me and my cheese because I'm not offended one bit. Hope you've done something really offensive elsewhere.
oh shit Rushy, I hope you haven't just got banned for challenging me and my cheese because I'm not offended one bit. Hope you've done something really offensive elsewhere.
Or why not do something really crazy like talk about Coldharbour Lane - I don't give a shit about all the pathetic sniping and sneery point scoring.
and of be(hav?)ing, er, odd(ly)!
According to my mate Chris (theologian), it means "Let G-d cast the first stone", as we're all supposedly born as sinners (doctrine of Original Sin), and only the Guy with the Beard a) wasn't born, and b) is without sin. That seems like a fairly good free-standing explanation to me, but he also tied it to the surrounding text, too.
The reason why Brixton forum has changed is that a lot of the old posters have been pushed out of Brixton and no longer post up
Yes. I think I'm ignoring that on purpose instead of just missing it because it makes me feel a bit sick to admit that you're right. You're saying that a lot of the popularity of Brixton as a tourist destination / wild night out is a sort of vicarious thrill / poverty tourism?
I suspect that some of the stuff that gets said here is simple kneejerk contrarianism (you're all saying that so screw you I'll say this etc).
But maybe some people are going out of their way to be a bit obnoxious so that they can build up a sort of defence to feeling at all uncomfortable whilst for instance downing cocktails opposite the barrier block:
Maybe I'm a silly snowflake but the thought of doing that is just grim, it would be no fun at all, because the inequality is so in your face. I'm not a cocktail person anyway but it would take some serious wilful blindness to be totally untroubled by the context in which you're sipping your sex on the beach. Don't know if anywhere else in London is undergoing change quite as fast and as brutally as right here so its bound to be emotive defensive stuff, and not just for those who feel excluded but possibly for the 'usurpers' as well?
A norm of mass market societies which requires one carefully avoid interaction with other's physically present. If the others are part of a social base, then civility would be required; if others are nonpersons, then one can be uncivilly inattentive, i.e., one can stare, push, look through, speak through or talk about others in that presence.
Through this simple interactional ritual we “do modernity.” Is this everyday micro-ceremony emblematic of our modern urban way of life? Are these anonymous encounters with countless others in public places somehow unique to modern cosmopolitan societies? Perhaps like Georg Simmel's “blasé attitude” they reveal our detachment from the world, display the impersonal nature of our societies and are indicative of the over-stimulation of crowds.
This reminded me of the sociologist Goffman idea of "civil inattention".
Heard it on the thinking aloud radio programme.
Unlike the past when people lived in small groups, for example in villages, we now live in mass societies.
Goffman put forward the idea of civil inattention to explain how people in mass societies deal with with this change.
I would say that on one level many would be troubled by what they see. I would not say its necessarily wilful blindness. Psychologically it can all be to much to take. "Civil inattention" is not necessarily nasty its a way of dealing with mass society.
It can work the other way. Was chatting to colleague about how going around Mayfair does my head in sometimes. He told me that way madness lies and you have to forget about it sometimes.
I do think your are right about the emotive defensive idea in certain cases.
Maybe living in mass societies requires a certain level of callousness. Even if its presented in a civil way.
Occasionally this breaks down. As seen in the last riots. This is what can happen to societies where a lid is kept on inequality. The return of the repressed in Freudian terms. Cities are in a sense living organisms in a way. We like to think of ourselves as independent entities but we are social animals. Freud saw how this was a conflict in humans they could not solve. Marx would disagree.
I don't think he'll be getting many customers from the estate opposite.The fashion driven hairdressing brand: Dalston/Clapton. Raw and luxurious, we're East London's independent boutique salon.
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Judging by the way that the nearby strip is being turned into the East Village/Nu-Dalston, I don't think that dark day will be far awayThe day when domino club closes and becomes flats and or a cheese emporium is the day when the fat lady sings.
but he might be able to employ someone from that estate!I don't think he'll be getting many customers from the estate opposite.
A low paid cleaner, perhaps?but he might be able to employ someone from that estate!
What's Carlos going to do then?If I've read it right, it appears that number 342 (opposite the Barrier Block) is going to be a new branch of a super trendy hair salon run by this East London based gentleman.
I don't think he'll be getting many customers from the estate opposite.
But a job is a job perhaps?A low paid cleaner, perhaps?
I think it's going to turn into a mix of the Village (cocktails/expensive food) and Pop Brixton (entrepreneurs).What's Carlos going to do then?
Or do you think the parade will get like "Phone City" on Brixton Road?
Yes. Get the poor people to service the rich. Right opposite their estates. That's assuming this place will even give anyone from the estate a decent, well paid job, which I doubt.But a job is a job perhaps?
If I've read it right, it appears that number 342 (opposite the Barrier Block) is going to be a new branch of a super trendy hair salon run by this East London based gentleman.
I don't think he'll be getting many customers from the estate opposite.