Maurice Picarda
Actually, might as well flounce.
This is a semantic argument, not one about whether women get a raw deal internationally. I'd suggest that patriarchy is defined by what happens in the public sphere and where authority sits. I'm sure that there are ways of twisting that definition to prove that you are a better feminist than me and win whatever points you're after; I also think it's handy to have a word that describes exactly the power disparity between old men and young women in tribal Afghanistan.