frogwoman said:
‘Just as a child needs its parents, so does an immature society need its gods. Freedom is always hard to bear, and the weight of self-responsibility can only be carried after a certain level of sophistication has been attained; - Stephen Goldin.
Fair enough I guess, but "realising you're perfect" does sort of imply that you, well...realise ...
Who mentioned ‘realising’? – my point is that you’d be better off accepting where you are now – thinking you’re imperfect all the time won’t do your esteem much good.
so being able to opt out of taking responsibility for one's actions is somehow a good thing?
Good, bad – all personal truths. Who’s talking good and bad? – I’m talking about responsibility and choice. You can’t opt out of your responsilbities – more importantly YOU are responsible for EVERYTHING that has happened to you unless others are messing with your choices.
yeah, sure, but that's quite a different concept to implying that everyone should do that, and that one individual's morality isn't better or worse than another.
I’m not ‘shoulding’ anything. I’m saying that everyone really chooses their own morality anyway and that choosing one authentic to you is important. Which is what you’ve done admittedly.
I'm sorry, but this "cultural laws" stuff is just bollocks. There is a universal morality which is basically not to do anything which harms another person, and obviously some people's morality doesn't work that way. sometimes the laws of society don't work that way either, because the people who make them are immoral and only care about making money or holding onto power. you're saying that the only reason why things are right and wrong is because of "culture", which is obviously not true. if you lived in a culture that promoted female circumcision, and you refused to let this happen to you, or your child, would you be doing something wrong? or what about if you lived in a culture where some people were suspected of being witches, and you actually protected one of these people in your house? i mean, you'd really be transgressing the cultural laws then, they might even think that you were trying to harm them by helping this person.
Sorry but this ‘universal morality’ is bollocks as well – you can believe it (and I might even agree with you) but you ain’t got no proof. You choose to believe in what you’ve read, that’s all.
To be honest those examples you’ve given would be carried out by ‘religious’ people – those who impose their dogma on people because of their ‘faith’ that it is correct action. I’ve been saying all along that you can transcend cultural laws (positively and negatively) – but occasionally you may get into trouble for it. Your religion is as much a part of your culture as anything else.
cultural relativism is really one of my pet hates.
Good for you
. (why?) Religious dogma is one of mine.
Why did you pick Judaism and Christianity if culture has no influence – why not Buddhism?
But if you're only accountable to yourself you don't really have a reason to give a shit either, unless you're doing something that doesn't really benefit you. and sometimes the right thing to do is something that will harm you as a person, that nobody will understand why you did it, and it might make people hate you, you might suffer all sorts of consequences. and sometimes people give their lives in order to do what's right.
I really don’t understand what you’re saying here... I'll try:
What’s right for you might be wrong for someone else – this obsession with being right is such a religious thing. In reality there is no right or wrong – they are merely the absolute ends of ‘righteous’ thinking. There are actions and consequences of actions. Culture will impose it’s own idea of what’s right or wrong with its criminal and civil laws, but these are by no means ‘correct’ either, just current.
You seem to be alluding to those who need organized religion to stop them from doing wrong/evil things. Maybe they need religion because they’re a bunch of selfish, greedy, hateful people.
Most mature people of course can just put themselves in other people’s shoes.
look mate to be honest you're coming over as a bit of a twat here. i know that's not your intention, and maybe i am too, but i really don't have a problem with your beliefs. seriously. i dont care what you believe, as long as you're a nice person it's fine.
I often do – but life’s too short to worry about it. Anyway isn’t this a discussion board?
i have had experiences that confirm to me that G-d exists. fair enough - you don't believe in it. i don't know why you don't, but you don't, and that's fine.
I believe in what I know to be true – everything else is just opinion or ‘maybe’s’. I do believe in a greater reality – I’ve experiences of my own that confirm that (non – drug related as well). But I wouldn’t impose on those experiences someone else’s ‘idea’ of it. To be honest here, I’m not having a go at you, more the idea of faith in general. I don’t believe in an anthropological god who requires to be worshippped – it’s just ridiculous. But I do accept the personal validity of spiritual experience – after all you’ve experienced it and not just read it in a book.
and as I've said before I don't have an oedipus complex or anything, and i don't view G-d as some kind of substitute for my parents, and i find that pretty insulting, tbh.
Well the thread is about psychology as well…. I'm not a big advocate of Freudian thinking - I prefer Jung.
I don't "accept it with blind faith". there are a lot of things in the torah and the bible which aren't literally true or may have even been added for political reasons. some of them might not apply now, but applied in the context of the time. i know this. you have to interpret the text for every generation, and that doesn't mean rewriting it, it just means trying to apply the words in a way which people can understand as life is vastly different now than how it was in the bible.
How about just considering it a piece of literature like ‘Hamlet’ or Ulysses, full of old stories written by long, long dead story-tellers and get whatever value you need from it like you would from any other piece of literature.
"Priests" LOL. believe it or not, i don't agree with everything my rabbi says. i think about things for myself. i actually CHOOSE to believe this - my parents are atheists, i was brought up not to believe in anything. it's what I actually
want to do, it's how
I want to live my life, so I don't see it as "tyranny". and i happen to enjoy it and get a lot out of it.
Fair enough.
Just to clarify my take on religion. To me religion is the emotional seeking of truth, Science and rationalism is the intellectual or physical seeking of truth. So I don’t have a problem with religion per se – I have a problem with anything that seeks to dogmatise. I think going to a Music Concert or a Rave or listening to inspirational music at home is our modern religiousity not some old 2000 year old empty rituals pervaded by usually pompous old men.