it appeared to be an apparently inclusive all female, all ages group
Nothing says 'inclusive' like 'all female'. It would look odd to have blokes portraying WSPU activists but I still don't think you can call it inclusive.
it appeared to be an apparently inclusive all female, all ages group
And there's the reason for my appearance on the posh list. I am indeed the granddaughter of Sir Thomas Lees, a baronet, albeit one with no land or property. His wife, also not posh, persuaded him to give it all away to set up Holton Lee, a Dorset charity for disabled people that promotes a holistic way of life.
What little cash he kept will, along with the title, eventually go the way of these things - down the male line to my Uncle Chris.
My mother Sarah grew up in the Dorset countryside but when she met and married my father, they lived in a terrace house close to where I live now.
We would go to the countryside every weekend, which was definitely a privilege for a city child. We would hang out on my uncle's farm with my cousins and leave our wet socks to dry by the Aga. These were the posh weekends with my extended family.
My brothers would be taken out shooting (the poor boys were useless - the eldest is a pacifist vegetarian) while I would sit in the kitchen and read Jane Austen.
When I walked to the village, swinging in between Gran and Grandad, the elderly people we passed would nod and say: 'Morning, milord, milady.' I remember feeling proud, not realising that there would come a time when I would bridle at being called posh.
My dad, post-university and with the least eastern European-accented English I've heard, got a job in the City and earned enough money to send me for a couple of years to Nick Clegg's old school, Westminster. After that it was Cambridge and the second poshest college: Trinity. (The poshest is St John's. Why? The posh just know these things.)
I'm certainly too posh for some of my erstwhile colleagues in the green movement. I've been flamed on Twitter by a man who calls himself 'Che Grimandi' for being posh.
I'll give you an example: I wanted to launch a campaign to save England's forests - the ones that the Government is planning to sell to the highest bidder. Instead of knocking on the door of every NGO begging them to help me, I got myself invited to a swanky cocktail party - the posh can do that sort of thing.
Among the guests was the editor of The Lady, Rachel Johnson: petite, stylish and taking charge of the room. As I introduced myself, she looked me up and down and said with a smile: 'Oh, you're that girl.'
There was recognition, the promise to meet for tea, and now she is president of the Save England's Forests campaign. Would that have happened if I had just walked up to her in the street? I guess not.
Oh god. Please, everyone - do read this from the woman herself yesterday, moaning that she's not posh:
Spotted this in there as well - god work chegs :
Then back onto the forests:
Being posh gets posh people jobs, from posh people. Shocker.There was recognition, the promise to meet for tea, and now she is president of the Save England's Forests campaign. Would that have happened if I had just walked up to her in the street? I guess not.
If we all concentrate on ignoring it, will it go away?
As long as people keep on starting threads about it, I doubt it is going to go away!
You think that's the key thing?
Your reasonableness is really annoying - is it planned?absolutely
perception is reality ...
Anyhow I don't know what you lot have got against posh people.
Posh people were born to lead
Well if people will keep following them that is!!
So what if the girl is posh.. ?
I suspect people are more pissed that she seems to be doing quite a lot and she seems at least a little egotistical..
So we must lead this shift ourselves. People with strong intrinsic values must cease to be embarrassed by them. We should argue for the policies we want not on the grounds of expediency but on the grounds that they are empathetic and kind; and against others on the grounds that they are selfish and cruel. In asserting our values we become the change we want to see.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/cif-green/2010/oct/11/left-values-progressive-self-interest
At parties I spend a lot of time by the canapes tray, trying to engage in conversation the young man who keeps filling up my glass. I'm filled with social anxiety when I have to sashay among the posh.
She sums up Greens.
she sounds like a total numpty.
others have better explained why.