I think this stuff is anything but clear cut and the evidence of prenatal hormone influence is growing and persuasive, particularly as it has also been shown in other mammals. We are animals, much less in control of ourselves then we all like to fancy.
Here, I would repeat something I said to sea star a while back. I'm sure she doesn't give a shit what I think, but I'll say it again anyway: it is important not to base a fight for rights and space and dignity on science. These things need to be fought for and won over recognition of lived experience and the right to space and dignity on that basis. Today you might find some scientific findings that you like, but tomorrow's findings might not be so much to your liking. Your right to live as you want and need to live needs to exist and justify itself independently of any finding from neuroscience. While we are all animals much less in control of ourselves than we like to fancy, we are also highly social animals who find all kinds of meanings at a social level. Those meanings all have a neural correlate, but we do not mediate them at the level of neurology. We mediate them at a social level.