I wouldnt go to anarchist bookfairs. Since the kick off with Occupy in 2012, and now this "terf war", I feel like I wouldnt be safe attending them, physically safe probably, but not psychologically safe.
I am not a radical feminist, I'm a Marxist feminist...so I'm not a TERF by those who use the term accurately, but I am most definately a TERF to those who would use it as a slur. I am becoming frightened at some aspects of the trans movement. I have seen cis women assaulted, hounded online, lost employment, lost reputation, been excluded from their faith community, kicked out of events and suffer the serious emotional illhealth through of this.
I dont think that "woman" is a synonym for "adult human female". But I knew for damn sure that some of the people who were male assigned at birth who have uttered the magic words "I am a woman" are men. Not all, definitely not all, but a number of them....and that number is growing.
Who can seriously think that the child murderer Huntley is a woman (and a lesbian no less).
Who can seriously think that Wolsht is anything other than a creepy man with an unhealthy obsession with children.
Who can seriously think that Yaniv (who appears to have extensive power over major publishing platforms) is not simply seeking out "acceptable" ways to abuse young girls.
Back in the 1970s, the Gay Rights movement (as it was then) was infiltrated by the pedophile information network, before finally kicking them to the kerb in the early 80s. Ignoring of the dangers of this organisation, dangers that women had been pointing out to them, cost them dearly. The 80s backlash which conflated gay men and child abusers severely impacted their health, wellbeing and lives, in the face of the AIDS crisis. I believe that there will be a horrible backlash against trans people unless the trans community acts to root out the creepy, rapey cis men in their midst who are piggybacking on their legitimate struggle.
These are exactly and specifically the type of men that I dont want to be around....ever ....and they are exactly and specifically the men that are now demanding access to those areas designed to keep them the fuck away from us.
Trans women's boundaries are by definition blurred, there are different modesty rules for female and male children for example. Trans women have used public facilities with men pre-transition. Trans women have not been targetted in the same way by creepy rapey men (they may well have been targetted, but the tactics used to victimise children who are AFAB and AMAB differs). Trans people's creep radar is different....and the transphobia of trans people being seen as freaks leads them to a level of empathy with other AMAB people who are also seen as freaks. Just like in the 1970s Gay Rights movement, many older gay men remembered a frustrated gay youth and wanted the next generation to be proud in their sexuality. But there needs to be an awareness that there are bad men out there, who groom people to accept the unacceptable.
This conversation needs to start happening urgently in the trans community. Cis women are highlighting it because it is being ignored, and that is taking a massive toll on the feminist community. The feminist community is fighting shitload of issues - universal credit, housing crisis, child poverty, NHS services, WASPI, spycops, gender paygap, metoo, sexual harassment, vaginal mesh, school cuts - all of which disproportionately affect women. This whole thing takes up so so much energy - the endless highlighting of the issues, the hounding, the psychic field hospitals that have to be set up around some women who are taking absolute psychological batterings online....those who disappear never to speak about it again, because speaking is too risky.
I dont feel safe any more in any environment where the term "TERF" is not seen as hate-speech.
I dont feel safe writing this.