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Celebrity Big Brother 2007

han said:
Yes she needs to let it lie now, but she has been ostracised for no apparent reason.

Letting it lie isn't an option though is it?
Every time she concedes and lets them off and is gracious enough to concede 'it was a misunderstanding' they keep coming back for another piece of her......Compromising with bullies is an admission of weakness and pretty much gives them permission to do you some more.
 
Rutita1 said:
Letting it lie isn't an option though is it?
Every time she concedes and lets them off and is gracious enough to concede 'it was a misunderstanding' they keep coming back for another piece of her......Compromising with bullies is an admission of weakness and pretty much gives them permission to do you some more.

I don't mean that she should concede and let them off as such - but just to let their shit glide over her head and not enter into their games. And that means toughening up a bit. Hard, I know, but probably necessary for her sanity and survival.

They're like dogs with bones. Keep giving them bones, and they'll just keep on gnashing!
 
The best thing you can do with bullies is ignore them.

If they see they're really getting to you, they love it, and carry on doing it.

If they think you're not bovvered, they'll stop....
 
Rutita1 said:
Compromising with bullies is an admission of weakness and pretty much gives them permission to do you some more.
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She has the difficulty that nobody is really sticking up for her properly. Ian H Stepson said in the diary room he wanted to be neutral, and that the best course of action was to stay out of it. No, excuse me, it isn't you coward. The best course of action is to confront it when it happens, and to say things like "I'm not taking part in this conversation; it's out of order" next time they try to draw him into their little snidey digs.
 
han said:
but just to let their shit glide over her head and not enter into their games. And that means toughening up a bit. Hard, I know, but probably necessary for her sanity and survival.

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I know what you mean mate but lets face it, ultimately we all want to be liked and even if we decide that they ain't worth it the situation is really magnified in there and would grind the best of us down...The fact she hasn't punched any or them is testament to her good character.....crying is the least anyone of us would do under the circumstances.
 
The highlights tonight gave Jade a very easy ride. I happened to have the telly on last night during the Jade/Shilpa/Cleo confab and Jade was in Shilpa's face for over half an hour repeating herself aggresively, somehow trying to make it out to be Shilpa's fault that Carole was evicted. The worst is that she was smirking and obviously really enjoying it, as Shilpa looked more and more bewildered and distraught. She was desperately trying to make a logical point, but unfortunately the person she was trying to make it to was nowhere near logical. Eventually poor Shilpa just wound up apologising for god knows what.
Also very disappointing to see Cleo nodding sagely at most of the things Jade was saying. What they also didn't show tonight was after Cleo hugged Shilpa, she was straight into the bedroom to reassure Jade that she'd done nothing wrong.
Ghastly woman, Jade.
 
danny la rouge said:
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She has the difficulty that nobody is really sticking up for her properly. Ian H Stepson said in the diary room he wanted to be neutral, and that the best course of action was to stay out of it. No, excuse me, it isn't you coward. The best course of action is to confront it when it happens, and to say things like "I'm not taking part in this conversation; it's out of order" next time they try to draw him into their little snidey digs.

You are quite right...I get the feeling that he and Cleo are a touch scared as well, not wanting the shit to be flung their way..
 
Bullshit @ the last few posts defending Shilpa. She's a manipulative spoilt twat who doesn't possess insight into her own behaviour. She deliberately insults Jade etc because she believes she's got the werewithall, class, intelligence and support to wipe the floor with them. The truth will out though and it was demonstrated over the chicken fiasco. Those girls were absolutely right to voice their concern and opinions about the cooking of that chicken but the "I'm such a victim" Shilpa chose to interpret it as a calculated attack. Would you have eaten it? The wanker Jackson was clueless too, so he just threw his two penneth into the "victimisation" theory. Oh so cozy. The Girls a class one bitch, I fuckin hate her.
 
Reg Perrin said:
Bullshit @ the last few posts defending Shilpa. She's a manipulative spoilt twat who doesn't possess insight into her own behaviour. She deliberately insults Jade etc because she believes she's got the werewithall, class, intelligence and support to wipe the floor with them. The truth will out though and it was demonstrated over the chicken fiasco. Those girls were absolutely right to voice their concern and opinions about the cooking of that chicken but the "I'm such a victim" Shilpa chose to interpret it as a calculated attack. Would you have eaten it? The wanker Jackson was clueless too, so he just threw his two penneth into the "victimisation" theory. Oh so cozy. The Girls a class one bitch, I fuckin hate her.

So do you think Danielle's acting perfectly reasonably then? Ie - Picking up on the manipulative Shilpa, and not bullying at all?
 
Reg Perrin said:
Bullshit @ the last few posts defending Shilpa. She's a manipulative spoilt twat who doesn't possess insight into her own behaviour. She deliberately insults Jade etc because she believes she's got the werewithall, class, intelligence and support to wipe the floor with them. The truth will out though and it was demonstrated over the chicken fiasco. Those girls were absolutely right to voice their concern and opinions about the cooking of that chicken but the "I'm such a victim" Shilpa chose to interpret it as a calculated attack. Would you have eaten it? The wanker Jackson was clueless too, so he just threw his two penneth into the "victimisation" theory. Oh so cozy. The Girls a class one bitch, I fuckin hate her.

Too right, I said this earlier in the thread before anything kicked off as well.

A fake conceited egotist attention seeker.

If it was really as terrible as she makes out and the worst experience of her life then she would have walked. :rolleyes: But no, her first priority is the career furthering exposure.

She should just grow a fuckin backbone imo, she's to used to being spoilt and surrounded by "yes" people all the time.

The only ones that can't see through her act are the nauseating sycophants cleo and Ian, and the ones that just wan't the peaceful life and can't be bothered to get involved or drawn into it incase they make themselves less popular, Dirk and Jermaine.
 
Jade manages to prove time and time again that she;s as thick as pigshit. Im surprised they are all too polite to tell her. And she and the others are racist bully's too. And I reckon Jo is a lesbian.
 
ianw said:
So do you think Danielle's acting perfectly reasonably then? Ie - Picking up on the manipulative Shilpa, and not bullying at all?

She's a young, stupid sheep of a girl. Only when she has got someone else with more front that speaks their mind does she come out of her shell enough to say what she would really love to say (but is too timid to say on her own)
 
bouncer_the_dog said:
Jade manages to prove time and time again that she;s as thick as pigshit. Im surprised they are all too polite to tell her. And she and the others are racist bully's too. And I reckon Jo is a lesbian.

Jade may be inarticulate, but she certainly aint thick.

As for racism zzzzzzzzz..... that is a load of old crap, if shilpa had been acting exactly as she has done, but was white, she'd get exactly the same crap of these girls.

Being from another culture does not excuse her for acting like a bossy prima donna arsehole.
 
RaverDrew said:
Jade may be inarticulate, but she certainly aint thick.

As for racism zzzzzzzzz..... that is a load of old crap, if shilpa had been acting exactly as she has done, but was white, she'd get exactly the same crap of these girls.

Being from another culture does not excuse her for acting like a bossy prima donna arsehole.

People can be so horrible about beautiful girls they know they'll never get to shag....
 
RaverDrew said:
Jade may be inarticulate, but she certainly aint thick.

As for racism zzzzzzzzz..... that is a load of old crap, if shilpa had been acting exactly as she has done, but was white, she'd get exactly the same crap of these girls.

Being from another culture does not excuse her for acting like a bossy prima donna arsehole.


Abso fuckin lutely. One of the features of this big bro has been the inability of anyone to deal with anything. Jade, for all her failings, has shown she's a genuine lass who hasn't the brains to fuck about. She's making the celebs look like arseholes.
 
Iemanja said:
I'm barely watching it this time, but tonight is making my blood boil.

The 'girls' are so fucking insecure the only way they can feel better is by trying to destroy someone who's so much stronger and self-assured.

I hate people like that and whenever I've found myself surronded by that kind of mentality I've always ran a mile. I think they're really sad, petty minded losers.

(((Shilpa)))


this is my take on it after seeing them start on Shilpa the other night. i was out last night so didn't watch it - but from your posts, it seems like it was more of the same.

i no longer think Jade's lovely, i think she's a bullying cow.
 
Iemanja said:
I'm barely watching it this time, but tonight is making my blood boil.
I'm the same. I don't often get angry at people on TV but I really think thing those girls are nasty. However, after the way some people said they like Pete Burns who was just as vile, they'll probably get away with it. :(
 
I dreamt all night about being bullied at school [I wasn't, well only for a couple of weeks]. I think I'll stop watching. Those of you who see no racism - how do you interpret the comments about Indians being so skinny because they don't cook their chicken properly and so get sick a lot? I suppose you reckon Jackie would have asked a white girl if she lived in a shack too.
 
Reg Perrin said:
Bullshit @ the last few posts defending Shilpa. She's a manipulative spoilt twat who doesn't possess insight into her own behaviour. She deliberately insults Jade etc because she believes she's got the werewithall, class, intelligence and support to wipe the floor with them. The truth will out though and it was demonstrated over the chicken fiasco. Those girls were absolutely right to voice their concern and opinions about the cooking of that chicken but the "I'm such a victim" Shilpa chose to interpret it as a calculated attack. Would you have eaten it? The wanker Jackson was clueless too, so he just threw his two penneth into the "victimisation" theory. Oh so cozy. The Girls a class one bitch, I fuckin hate her.

Ooooooooooooooooooo let it out mate. Feel better now?
I'm not saying Shilpa is untouchable but you can stick your fingers in your ears, shut your eyes and shout lalalalalalalala bullying doesn't exist lalalalalalala there haven't been nasty comments that border on the racist lalalalalaalalala Shilpa isn't being victimised lalalalalalala......
I however, can not.:)

As for 'chicken-gate' funny how the others seemed happy to eat it?
The girls had spent the afternoon sat on their arses waiting to find fault with it......So Shilpa doesn't make the best roast dinner, so what?

BTW I've heard that Shilpa is actually the cause of the war in iraq, what a bitch eh? :D And I see you managed to attck JJ in your post, yeah he caused the vietnam war don't you know?

edit: Yes I would have eaten the chicken, I would have eaten some breast or whatever because I would have been grateful for her efforts and not wanted to make her suffer.
 
RaverDrew said:
She should just grow a fuckin backbone imo, she's to used to being spoilt and surrounded by "yes" people all the time.

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Yeap you are right and thank god we have Jade, jo, dani and Jack to put her in her place eh? :rolleyes:
 
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