ViolentPanda
Hardly getting over it.
I know and I'll never recover now...
I think, sometimes, the easy way is the easy way. I know it's controversial and all....
Unfortunately, in work situations, the informal approach is either a hiding-to-nothing, or can be actively detrimental. As a union rep I was constantly having to tell people that the best way to get problems dealt with wasn't "having a quiet word", that it was following the set out lines of procedure, and making sure they were stuck to, and that I'd be happy to guide them through it.