equationgirl
Respect my existence or expect my resistance
You're very welcome Dark Knight I hope you manage to find some more information.
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Yeah, I wondered if it was something like he came back boasting of how many people he'd killed. That would have gone down badly with a lot of people who preferred not to talk about it because killing is a nasty business however good the cause, and the family would have been able to read it as 'ostracised for killing people'. Just one theory, there could be many explanations.I think my initial view might be to let sleeping dogs lie...
Like pretty much everyone else I've not heard of any kind of community wide ostracism just because someone joined up - which suggests it was personal, and the long standing and community wide nature of it suggests it was pretty bad.
The professionals (existentialist leaps to mind, he's pretty good..) might be able to give a more educated view on whether it's best to know something bad, or to not know and have it unresolved, but my concern is that you're going to dig out something pretty unpleasant, which may then cause you further issues around how you see your previous relationship with that person/identity.
Perhaps 'ostracised by the community because he joined up instead of going down the pit' is a comfortable cover story that your family told themselves to avoid looking at a nasty wound. Perfectly understandable, and given that they were the people who were there, with more information than you/we have, I'm tempted to think you might be best off following their cue.
ATB.
Was under the impression that coal miners were not conscripted at all, the opposite in fact, they were required via the Essential Work Order to remain in the mines as the war effort relied on domestic coal, indeed the Bevin Boys were conscripted to work in the mines. So if the grandad here quit the mines to fight and was subsequently shunned, that may be the reason.
My grandad never forgave the Kent miners for going on strike. I get the impression there was a lot of bitterness associated with industrial relations for the industries that did strike.Was under the impression that coal miners were not conscripted at all, the opposite in fact, they were required via the Essential Work Order to remain in the mines as the war effort relied on domestic coal, indeed the Bevin Boys were conscripted to work in the mines. So if the grandad here quit the mines to fight and was subsequently shunned, that may be the reason.
There is always bitterness when there is industrial action. Not sure where , aside , from your grandfather that there was lots of it though. If you look at the end of the war there were strikes in the armed forces and Labour romped to victory, even the Communist party had members elected.My grandad never forgave the Kent miners for going on strike. I get the impression there was a lot of bitterness associated with industrial relations for the industries that did strike.