Thanks, I try! It should be expansion from a position of strength, not expansion because we are killing our home planet.
We're not "killing our home planet". We're just making it harder for ourselves to live here. Our Earth and it's accompanying biosphere have survived multiple different versions of global environmental devastation that make our recent Anthropocene extinction event look like amateur hour. Volcanic eruptions the size of Siberia, ice caps reaching close to the equator, multiple asteroid impacts, and supernova-catalysed ozone layer destruction are just some of the ways that Nature one-ups us, and lo, life on Earth is still here.
No, the reasons we should look after the environment are ultimately in the interests of our own survival.
I don't think in opposition, however there is an idea that staying earthbound we face whatever our planet faces, be it from our own influence or not.
To be clear, I'm not saying that's what you think. But I often see people saying something along the lines that we should fix our problems here on Earth before going into space.
But if such logic is consistently applied, as opposed to someone simply using environmental concerns as a handy excuse for their opposition, then the result is deadlock. There will always be problems here on Earth, even if we were to achieve a post-scarcity civilisation where everyone's needs and a great majority of their wants are met.
Then there are what I like to think of as the misanthropes*. These people seem to think that the human species as a whole is somehow broken or morally-compromised, and that by spreading into space we would become some kind of awful cancer in the universe. To be honest, I find such a position to be nigh-incomprehensible. If one thinks that humans are terrible, why continue being human? I'm not even sure that the people who express such opinions genuinely believe them.
*(to be absolutely clear, I don't think you share this position at all)
Some say we need to become multiplanetary because of how we are messing up the earth.
Those people are idiots. Any notions as to how long it will take before we can sustain human life in space without significant input from Earth are entirely speculative, but I think it's fair to say that climate change will seriously fuck shit up within the next century or two, we simply don't have the time to neglect that.
Over spans of time much longer than a couple of centuries, and if you include potential natural disasters as well, then that position makes sense. But I am just as opposed to the notion of extraterrestrial settlement being used as an excuse to ignore climate change, as I am opposed to the idea that the need to fight climate change means we shouldn't go into space either.