thing is, I spent a few weeks on the continent this summer, in Germany, Denmark and Sweden.
Brussels to Koln - late departure
Koln to Berlin - three trains, one overcrowded with standing room only, two with doors out of service, one with whole carriage closed off due to AC malfunction
Berlin to Sweden - no problems
2 journeys within Germany - ok
Denmark - 2 journeys, one two hours late to destnation, other one ok
Sweden - one sevice wrongly advertised as carrying bikes, another one about 20 mins late, then another one about an hour and a half late, another one fine
Denmark back to Germany - severely overcrowded, had to stand for about 3 or 4 hours
Remaining trains in Germany back to UK - ok.
I genuinely don't think delays etc in the UK are worse than most other European countries.
See also this thread I did a while back
http://www.urban75.net/forums/threads/your-perception-of-rail-travel-in-the-uk.230870/#post-8353688