Its not patronising at all, its worse than that!
I know both you and Dave have been around long enough to know the arguments for and against. And you take your choice and decide that a path on the union payroll can be conducted with some kind of political independence.
Your line of rebuttal, that essentially, being critical of this strategy amounts to 'purism', from high up in some ivory tower doesnt wash either.
Currently Im getting involved with a network of people in London that are making practical links with tube cleaners (as is monte, i think) and the lower echelons of the T&G are trying to get them organised... however, we (the group) recognise that it is important to maintain an independence... to feed in to the process where we are able and welcome people working here into ours. But that is a very different strategy to
direction from the union itself. And also i recognise that the
only reason the union are prepared to engage with 'outside tendencies' is because of their own relative weakness in this sector particularly, and in their 'market share' of the workforce generally.
Perhaps its true that these discussions are slightly abstract due to the low levels of class combativity... But I'd like to think if i was living through an explosion of class antagonism (like before or after WWI) that these essential strategic questions would not be blurred or that i would be seduced into a mediating role. Like Guy Aldred who Closer to home (yours actually!) lets also remember militants like Will Lawther, Durham miner and syndicalist, who helped set up an anarchist club in his pit village and helped organise a large anarchist conference in Newcastle before WWI. He later became President of the miners union and by 1947, during a srtike:
No one is above the dangers of being seduced into a mediation role.