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Once common 'domestic' skills that are dying out

I've always been a bit of a useless twat but it would never occur to me to get a decorator in, as an able bodied person. Once you've cleared the stuff out of the room/away from the walls, you might as well have the satisfaction of doing the work. I know almost no one else who does their own decorating.
 
I've been wanting to have a crack at this now I'm living somewhere hedge laying isn't very useful (there's another one for the list). How much more technical / skilled is it than just literally stacking stones - easy enough to do a decent job with a bit of practice after just watching a youtube video?
I had some instruction from a member of the dry stone walling association, who helped me pick up the knack, after watching me for a bit [and coming back to check one evening !] he then said that I had the eye/hand for it and left me to it ! I think because I would pick up a stone and place it far more aften than not, nor did I find the need to trim stone to fit.

Rebuilding can be much easier. It sounds easy written out ...
Take the wall remains down to the first layer of through stones that are stable - that might be ground level, so assuming the foundation layer is OK ...
When doing this destruction, spread the stones out so you can see what you have - keep the big toppers & throughs in one area and the tiny fillers in another, with the rest graded by size - heaviest nearer the line of the wall. Note, leave yourself plenty of room actually on both sides of the wall to work.

Start with larger stones first, try for the longer side lined up to the outside, and working on both sides. Avoid vertical gaps more than one row high. [ie one on two to cover the gap below] Keep the interior packed as you go with mostly irregular or softer material - unless building a hedge bank, try to keep soil out. Use the interior space to pack in wedges / chips to keep the outer face stable. After about every 18" put through stones in - their weight and size keep the faces together, as does the batter ie the lean back of the face as the wall narrows as it gets taller. If you are trying to keep sheep or goats confined, then don't let the throughs project out of the field face. To finish, the top layer should be covering the full width, and then you can put on coping stones.

There are additional things to do when walling up a slope / across a hollow / ending a wall by a gate / turning a sharp corner / adding in a tunnel for water or livestock to pass / including a style for humans.

If you are building a single skin boulder wall - good luck as that's a type I've not tried.
Also, to keep cattle confined, the wall needs to be very heavily built as they will lie against it - I need to talk to my neighbour to rebuild a patch of our joint wall as his beasts have been doing exactly that, which is pushing the wall off it's foundations.
 
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In my penultimate year of primary school we had a teacher who spent a lot of time teaching us how to write letters properly, which really annoyed me at the time but actually did come in handy up until early adulthood. Not a great deal of call for it now.

One thing I realised when my kids started to use phones is that... they didn't know how to start a phone call or answer the phone. I grew up with my parents answering the phone and going 'Hello [our phone number]' and my kids never heard that. When they started occasionally calling friends on home phones pre having mobiles I had to tell them not to just go 'Is [friend] there?' when parents answered but that they actually should greet the parent and ask how they are before launching into that :oops:
I lived in the Netherlands for a while where it’s the person making the call has to announce themselves first…so if I called I would say “this is pseudonarcissus, can Cloo come out to play”. Here we get a lot of robocalls…responding with silence is useful as they generally ring off of you don’t say hello.
 
Was thinking about this the other day as I sewed Scout badges onto son's shirt. I can basically sew two things together very untidily, I can sew on a button - not sure if I learned this in school or from home (though definitely did textiles for a few years at secondary school) but I guess it's not something taught much anymore outside the home and I'd better show my kids.

Of course, loads of people on my grandmother's generation (my grandmother among them) could full on make clothes and that's totally died out. I don't imagine anyone knows, or needs to know, how to starch a collar anymore either.

What other formerly common skills do you think are on their way out?
Should I ever be promoted from from being a chief scout badge holder to being chief scout, I will instigate the “I sew my own damned badges on” badge and make it a prerequisite of all other badges…when did parents sewing on badges become a thing? ;)
 
We got taught how to wire a plug at school. Have never actually done it for real though, thankfully.

The plug without a back. Amazon did a recall on Kindle chargers that had this fault, the back would lift off as you tried to pull it out the socket. Gave you a refund for a new charger and asked you to post the dodgey one back. I just binned it.

Changing light bulbs surely can't be considered a skill. It's not more complex than selecting the right charging cable for a device.

Shoe polishing and ironing tend to happen very rarely and on the same occasions.

Cars, I bet now days hardly anyone has bits of car sat on newspaper in doors whilst repairs are done, - a common sight in my childhood.
 
I think we learned how to sew at school too. I was gonna give it a go again a few years ago, sew a button back on but the needle threading gizmo broke and I CBA after that.
 
We got taught how to wire a plug at school. Have never actually done it for real though, thankfully.

The plug without a back. Amazon did a recall on Kindle chargers that had this fault, the back would lift off as you tried to pull it out the socket. Gave you a refund for a new charger and asked you to post the dodgey one back. I just binned it.

Changing light bulbs surely can't be considered a skill. It's not more complex than selecting the right charging cable for a device.

Shoe polishing and ironing tend to happen very rarely and on the same occasions.

Cars, I bet now days hardly anyone has bits of car sat on newspaper in doors whilst repairs are done, - a common sight in my childhood.
I used to service my own cars many years ago, my brother and I swapped more than one engine when young but (my age aside) lifting the bonnet on my current car reveals a mechanism as comparable in complexity to a spacecraft.
These days I check tyre pressures, top up the washer bottle and make sure oil, water and brake fluid levels are OK.
It's been a while since I've even changed a bulb.
When my older three offspring passed their tests I gave them a quick rundown in how to do this including how to change a tyre however when Youngest passed hers a year ago, her mother's car which she sometimes borrows was one without a spare.
 
Writing a cheque on the side of a cow
writing any sort of cheque, I would think ...

[I still do this, a couple of the very minor heritage societies I'm involved with don't do on-line subscriptions - and one such organisation used to pay by cheque for restoration work until a couple of years ago].
 
I changed a tyre this year (on my driveway), first time after passing my test 13 years ago. Felt like I should give it a go. Turns out I couldn't even lift the spare out of the boot without help, and also couldn't loosen the wheel nuts :facepalm: Guess it's back to calling the AA next time I get a flat on my own.
 
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Should I ever be promoted from from being a chief scout badge holder to being chief scout, I will instigate the “I sew my own damned badges on” badge and make it a prerequisite of all other badges…when did parents sewing on badges become a thing? ;)
Ziggy did actually sew one on as taught at Scouts. It's only marginally worse than my efforts.
 
I changed a tyre this year (on my driveway), after passing my test 13 years ago. Felt like I should give it a go. Turns out I couldn't even lift the spare out of the boot without help, and also couldn't loosen the wheel nuts :facepalm: Guess it's back to calling the AA next time I get a flat on my own.
Mrs Q flatly refused to even attempt it on her Micra, her argument went along the lines of "I have a husband and a grown-up son, this is a job for the men in the house"
 
I've always felt like I should be able to do it. Whenever I've had flats in the past, it's always been when I had small children and no other adult in the car with me, so wasn't really safe to attempt at that point. But I am a bit gutted to find I can't even get the bloody spare out!
 
I changed a tyre this year (on my driveway), first time after passing my test 13 years ago. Felt like I should give it a go. Turns out I couldn't even lift the spare out of the boot without help, and also couldn't loosen the wheel nuts :facepalm: Guess it's back to calling the AA next time I get a flat on my own.
Don't get me started that my car doesn't have a spare wheel...
 
Don't get me started that my car doesn't have a spare wheel...
Both the A6 and the Micra both of which we replaced last year had one of those spacesaver spare wheels neither of the cars that replaced them a Lexus and a Toyota Yaris have one and I'm less than happy about it but spares definitely seem to be a non-thing these past years. Pisses me off too.
 
I've always felt like I should be able to do it. Whenever I've had flats in the past, it's always been when I had small children and no other adult in the car with me, so wasn't really safe to attempt at that point. But I am a bit gutted to find I can't even get the bloody spare out!
This was one of the reasons I gave up doing much work on my motorbikes. The nuts had always been done up by someone a lot stronger than me, and then acquired a good coating of mud and salt.

I needed to recharge the battery recently on my current bike and getting it out was like doing open heart surgery. Plus I had to get a mate to undo one of the bolts for me.
 
I bet most of the kids of today would look at you blankly if you asked them to irrigate the crops using a shaduf , harness oxen for the plough or even spin flax into thread.
 
My MiL still bewails the loss of her twin tub
I absolutely loathed mine :D Was so happy when the Hydro gave me credit and I bought a proper washing machine :D

Not read all the pages but tin openers, I had to use one last night and it reminded me of when daughter let her oldest(11 at the time) try it out, she didn't have a clue :D
We still have an open fire. We do still have to use newspaper to get a draw!
 
I have known people plug a plug in without a back on, which is a really stupid thing to do, especially as it becomes very difficult to unplug, especially if you can't switch the power off.
I have known a person to plug in her hair dryer using matchsticks in the Belgian hotel and then pulled the hairdryer out of the sink of water(it fell off the shelf) Blew the hotel fuses strangely enough, it nipped a bit too, never did it again :D
 
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Oh, wow! I used to have a twin tub! Had completely forgotten, and would have no idea how to use it now...I think. Maybe it would all come flooding back, hopefully not literally.


Depends how stretchy the denim is. That looks like you should do what pinkmonkey suggested and put a patch on it. (I'd put it inside rather than out. Well, that's what I'd do if I got round to it.)

But I've currently got a rip like that in my favourite pair of jeggings, and they're quite stretchy. I'll probably just backstitch them. It'll be a bit messy, but will most often be covered by long tops 👍🏾

I'd put the patch on the outside so you don't need to worry about the fraying.
If you put it on top it’ll show, if you put it under and stitch over the rip, enough, you’ll barely see it and it won’t fray.
 
Don't get me started that my car doesn't have a spare wheel...
Ah... punctures.

They only happen when it is pissing down, it is always an offside tyre and the road speed limit is always at least 60.

The joys of wrestling with wheel nuts as lorries thunder past, drenching you as they go. :)
 
Think it depends on what social circle you move in ( and there is no intention to make a judgement here) but my observation after working in a smaller supermarket (one down from a superstore) for just over 8 years is that a lot of cooking skills are being lost and whole generations of people are losing them......lots of people are just going for the convenient option....you can now get heinz beans with cheese already in them ffs

Based on this thread, I feel a veritable alpha given that I can:
  • Light a fire
  • Damp down a fire
  • Sew on a button
  • Stitch up a rip
  • Polish a pair of shoes
  • Unblock a toilet
  • Descale a kettle
  • Defrost a freezer
  • Cook from scratch
  • Carve a roast bird
  • Turn a carcass into stock
  • Gut a fish
  • Brew tea from leaves
  • Write a letter
  • Make and receive phone calls
  • Change a car tyre
  • Repair a puncture on a bike
  • Change a plug
  • Replace a lightbulb
  • Solder in a battery
I make no claims about the quality of my abilities in any of these areas.
None of these seem like theh couldn't be solved with YouTube and I can do them anyway. With people renting places and a surprising amount of that being inefficient or expensive I can see why bother tho. I've fixed washing machines cos it was mine but also had electricians, plumbers and boiler people out cos it wasn't. Even if I could do it why make it my issue. Repair people will fix it for no cost as not my property.
 
writing any sort of cheque, I would think ...

[I still do this, a couple of the very minor heritage societies I'm involved with don't do on-line subscriptions - and one such organisation used to pay by cheque for restoration work until a couple of years ago].
I've never written a cheque ever and I'm 40 lol. Just annoyed me when I got one and had to locate a bank.
 
Ah... punctures.

They only happen when it is pissing down, it is always an offside tyre and the road speed limit is always at least 60.

The joys of wrestling with wheel nuts as lorries thunder past, drenching you as they go. :)
I remember having a wheel nut that had been done up so tightly that I bent the wheel brace getting it undone. It ended up being a recovery call-out.
 
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