cozmikbrew
Bass case
Right, I've been a carer for my mum for 7 years, I buried her in June, so now I've had to make a claim for UC, the Citizens Advice bureau helped me make the initial claim, with a 3 way phone call, before caring for my mum I was on ESA, but the work related activity group, so every 3 months or so I had to go in but my, what are they called?? The person who I spoke to was sound, understood my depression and anxiety issues and my Sciatica symptoms, anyway I went in one day and my usual person wasn't there, I always went in with a friend due to feeling really anxious in those kind of situations, just as more background, so this guy walks over, says "How can you care for anyone if you're depressed??" and said no you can't no longer claim ESA as if you're a full time carer for your mum you can't fulfil the contract, being in the work related activity group and that I'd have to claim Income Support, he then said in a really sneering way " Oh don't worry, you won't have to see us again unless ya mum dies "!! He was a right peice of shit, so I had to claim Income Support via phone, I got £42 a week, on top of £65 carers allowance, how I've managed for the last 7 years is a mystery, anyway, I've now had to claim UC, I was under the impression that it was all done online now but I've had to go in and show them a Tenency Agreement, Council tax bill and proof of address. I've got a sick note but I've got that feeling of persecution again, my head was fucked before putting my needs, both mental and physical, emotional, basically I put my life on hold to care for my mum, increasingly more intense as Alzhiemers and lack of mobility took their toll, I feel scooped out, mentally frazzled, jump when the phone rings due to my mum having a series of falls which I had to attend to immediately via a falls alarm system, think I'm suffering from a form of ptsd due to a thousand horrible situations I had to deal with, and on top of that, I have recently had a sort of break through concerning situations in my childhood that I have only just recognised as trauma and that have been the cause of my addiction issues, I'm just scared, they really chucked everything at me before, one wanker even saying my sick notes were forgeries, sorry I'm rambling, fuck it @x