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Niall Ferguson's deep-cover sock-puppet
You talk in intensely abstract terms. If it has meaning, it is not clear what that meaning is. It does look like pseudo-pretentious bollocks. If you don't want it to come across that way, then you'll have to express it in ways that make your meaning clear.And it's evident that when you're unfamiliar with an area of knowledge - linguistics, psychology, social psychology (or that's how it looks) you reject it and refuse to broaden your perspective by reading something. Sounds like ignorance... But if you're happy with that, then good luck to you. Presumably you come here looking for self-validation.
I got sent an abstract recently that was written in utterly impenetrable language. When I'd worked through it, the stunning insight was that people talking in workplace corridors is a productive activity. ie exactly the kind of trivial shite that has to be dressed up in impenetrable language in order to impress the idiots who don't understand it but don't want to look stupid by admitting it.
That is how you come across. If you don't want that to be the case, you need to address the problem - no one else can.