QUOTE="Gaia, post: 16173422, member: 78222"]Paging
equationgirl - are you able to assist here…? (well, you're definitely more able to than I am). EG is Urban's resident benefits expert, but I'll ask you something - were you claiming as a couple, or were you literally just paying your ESA into his account…? What account does the DWP have for you - presumably your own, yes…?
Hang on, I've just reread that - you're saying you were claiming ESA
whilst you were working…? If the DWP finds out about that you're likely to be up the proverbial, and I reckon they'll likely garnish your wages until you've paid back what you owe (plus interest (I've no idea what they charge - think it's 10%, but don't quote me on that)). You're almost certainly be told to attend a tribunal I'd have thought - do you have a CAB near you (where are you, by the way…? Just roughly. Are you in England (because it'll be different in Scotland and different again in Northern Ireland)…?
But anyway, EG will certainly be able to offer you better advice than I can (I'm feeling too muzzy-headed myself right now).[/QUOTE]
I was claiming as single, they do not know I have a partner (stupid I know) but I didn't realise the rules at first then I got scared I'd end up homeless if I told them as I knew I wouldn't be able to cope with a full time job e.t.c. housing benefit is paid directly into his account by the council and my ESA and PIP are paid into my account. I then transfer this straight into his account by standing order to prevent me spending it. This started off as a way to pay bills but over the last year I changed the payee reference on the transfers to "joint savings" with the understanding that money leftover from bills would be put into a joint account ( but in his name, we don't share an account in both our names). I am no longer working, the work I did was in a short period mid October until early December and then mid December until late January at another workplace. This was all part time - under 16 hours (maybe a few over on one week) I may have gone over the earning limit by a couple of pounds on some of the weeks. As far as I was concerned I was ok and it counted as permitted work - didn't know they were to be informed.
worried about the prospect of them realising I am in a relationship and owing a HUGE amount and possibly going to court. I will not be able to cope with this! I am already finding it really hard/nearly got sectioned and I haven't even had the compliance interview yet :'( I've read cases online about other people with bipolar going through the same thing (fraud cases) and the DWP dragging their names through the press.
If this happens to me I am really worried about what I will do, I can't live knowing what people will think of me, I am already too embarrassed to tell people I know about my condition so if this is in the papers I won't cope with that and will be leaving behind my poor partner who has done nothing wrong. I really don't want to hurt him, he claims no benefits at all and I've brought all this down on top of him, I'd hate for him to be embarrassed to be with me.
I'm not sure whether to give the wage slips and pray they don't access my bank account - other than the undeclared work they have no reason to (I hope)I don't have any interest generated on my account as there's not much money in it or whether to risk it and give them no evidence and them possibly escalate the case to a full fraud investigation.
I have lost so much weight since last week, it is all making me really ill. Best case scenario they drop it due to my health and then I stop claiming altogether in a few months to get it out of my life for good. I'm not sure how I'll cope but I can't go on living in fear