Well: family of four. Two girls aged 16 and 12. We need to know what's good accommodation-wise. Is self catering something they do? (I've looked at websites, and it all seems to be hotels, motels, B&Bs...).
Where's the good history? Where's cool places to visit that aren't going to be too tacky?
We haven't decided we're definitely going there. Just finding out what's on offer. And how much it might cost. Last year we were in Italy, in Barga in the Garfagnana, which was great: medieval hilltop towns, hills, markets, monasteries. We're not into lying on beaches. (My skin's like yours, IJ!). What is it one does in New England? Road trips to diners that make johnny cakes?
first of all YAY! YAY! YAY! (sorry, I get excited when urbanites come to visit-I was born and have spent basically my whole life in NE)
Second of all, New England is a very big place, with many different types of places & things to do. After all, it is about 1/3 bigger than England itself.
someone mentioned the cape, and I usually would agree (& add a suggestion to take a trip to the islands) but not in autumn, sorry. also, you just said no beaches.
Vermont and New Hampshire are beautiful.Do you like camping? There are many fantastic B&b's. Also, there are many options throughout NE to rent a cottage or cabin, or chalet or whatever, for a week or two, and it ends up generally being less expensive than a hotel.
Is that what you mean by self-catering? I can get you links if you want.
There's so much more I can tell you, but I'd like to get more of a sense of what you're looking for.
NE attractions in general:
historic shipping/maritime towns & villages (like Salem, MA, Fall River, MA, or Mystic, CT)
Acadia national park (in Maine)
Boston, MA & Providence, Rhode Island (there is a whole thread on what to do in Boston)
the Berkshires (mountains in Western Ma) home of Tanglewood, museums, beautiful pastoral scenery, etc)
Sturbridge Village & Plimoth Plantation (Mass.) "living history" museums featuring historical re-enactment of colonial period
rugged rocky coast of Maine- lobsters & lighthouses
tranquil villages of Vermont, maple syrup, mountains, green valleys, gorgeous lakes, great place to do a foliage tour
Massachusetts imo has the most cultural attractions
Connecticut IMO has the least of any attractions but is still very nice.
well, hope that helps a bit. Let me know what you think