Shechemite
Be the sun and all will see you
There is no problem. Stop fixating on this kind of stuff. A hobby would help.
There is no problem. Stop fixating on this kind of stuff. A hobby would help.
But the wasps might sue as their young contracted asthma from the damp conditionspanpete
If you've got a wasps nest up there then you've got some kind of access point for the wasps. Right? So there's air going in and out too. Those wasps aren't going to be nestling down in a grubby mucky humid nasty place. are they now. They're probable more concerned than you or I might be about the perfect conditions for their young
But the wasps might sue as their young contracted asthma from the damp conditions
Oops!!It's the middle of the bleeding night here, Missus!
Oops!!
Um....so walking round a park with your headphones on may not be the best thing to do
Ah got ma pitbull, i riding
and having seen quite a few pictures of your loft now I can assure you I'm suffering from loft envy. Showing off your perfectly fine loft at any opportunity
Thank youBe kind to yourself Pete.
The perception of risk, and the perception of duty - that you MUST act or else something bad will happen... they are just that - perceptions. It's not your duty to manage every possible danger, and it would be impossible anyway.
Being kind to yourself, giving yourself some slack - they are moral imperatives.
Be kind to yourself
Does that nest look old and do wasps return to the same nest each year. Thanks
Does that nest look old and do wasps return to the same nest each year. Thanks
ThanksPretty sure they don't.
Thank you
Thank you for your kind words.No worries, just go easy on yourself. You're clearly an intelligent and conscientious person, I hope you can find a way to overcome your problems.
I'm pretty sure they like a new one each yearDoes that nest look old and do wasps return to the same nest each year. Thanks
Thank you for your kind words.
I've just been in my loft and found some more worrying things.
In the first pic, I don't know if the insulation in the far side is covering the eaves.
View attachment 102498 I tried to reassure myself by telling myself that it has been there 7 years and if it was covering the eaves, my ceiling would be mouldy, bedroom smells foisty but that could be due to a rot problem in the room opposite the bedroom, although smells shouldnt get in the bedroom as there is a firedoor and a raised wooden bit on the floor threshold. I tried looking out my bedroom window to see if I could see any insulation hanging out, but I cannot seee the eaves, cos of the fascia board and the way the flat is built. I couldn't reach the roofing felt to see if it was damp or not, so how can I tell, or can anyone here tell me if the insulation looks like it is covering the eaves. I can only feel the roof felt near the loft hatch and that feels fine, but I cannot feel it, right at the far end in the picture and for all I know it could be soaking wet. What indication would I get.?
Also, in the next pic, I am worried that the piece of timber with a red ring around it is rotten.
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Plus there is a wasps nest in there but I dunno if it is an old one, as its only march, and I dunno if wasps use the same nests every year or not.
This post makes so much sense to me.Been (and to a small extent still am) in a similar position. I know how much bigger my life has become, and how much more useful I am to others, for having been able to worry less.
It's hard because it's so unintuitive. When you have thoughts in your head, which you don't want and can't escape from, telling you a 'bad thing' is going to happen unlsss you stop it, and that you 'must' stop it, it doesn't seem right to stop worrying. But it is right. You have no duty to manage every hypothetical risk.
Those who haven't lived with this can't really understand - hence the 'get a hobby' comments.
Thanks for this info.1) Your flat roof above your boiler will ventilate without eaves. Roofs are not hermetically-sealed environments, they're multi-part assemblages that are rain-tight but not air-tight.
2) Even if your insulation were blocking the eaves, it wouldn't stop the eaves serving their purpose because insulation is porous to air. Ventilation will occur through it.
3) Why do you think the timber is rotten, because it's discoloured? If it were rotten, given that it's part of a roof support, it would at the very least be bowed. As it is, it looks like a reinforcement for the main support, that's got some sawdust on it.