It's just that anarchism is incredibly idealist, utopian, and unrealistic with its objective of abolishing the state.
Hi — I'm late to the party. This is a good point from the original post at the top of the thread. Not in the sense of "I agree with this" but in the sense that it makes an excellent starting point for a conversation about anarchy and those of us who embrace it as an ideal.
For the sake of comparison, one could make the same points about holding a moral perspective that values kindness, forgiveness, and charitable sharing of resources — that it's incredibly idealistic, utopian, and unrealistic.
In both cases, you could counterargue (and I do) that any and all progress in that direction is a good thing, and that failure to establish such a state of affairs as an absolute doesn't make incremental progress in that direction a useless and wasted effort.
Anarchy, if it is to work, has to be cooperative. It
does work in small informal groups such as three friends on a small fishing boat. They can discuss where they want to go next and how long they want to stay out on the water without someone being the Captain and having authority over the other two. Does it extrapolate effortlessly to 300 residents of a cooperative building, or 300 million residents of a hypothetical anarchic nation? Very obviously not, but that doesn't mean the latter is impossible, merely that a totally informal structure isn't going to do the job.
I don't think anarchy can be established by overthrowing conventional structure by force. Warfare and violence by its very nature is a coercive form of implementing decisions, and I'm reminded of the sign in a photograph of a peace rally from the 1960s that read "Fighting for peace is like fucking for virginity".
I'm not as pollyanna about anarchy as dismissive folks tend to assume. I've been a participant in idealistic organizations that officially "did everything by consensus", and I've been in 11 hour meetings that eventually ground to a halt with exhausted frustrated people thinking we'd attained consensus on a few crucial decisions, only to find out at our next meeting that we did not have consensus on whether or not we had had consensus! There are entire months' worth of meetings that I still want an emotional refund on.
But yeah I have some structural notions that I think are worth playing with and testing out, and I'm up for comparing notes with anyone else who is of a similar perspective.