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Respect my existence or expect my resistance
That would concern me a lot, to be honest, because he comes across as doing the best for him rather than what's best for you, his clients. The suspicious side of my brain is wondering what he is up to - could be anything from meeting commission targets to something downright illegal.Now you come to mention it I do remember being told this at some point in the past, about a loan I think. It does seem like our FA has a path in mind for us and that he's not keen in deviating from it but is, at the very least, being unclear about that with us.
The first question is why did he decide to change mortgage provider without consulting you? Big warning bell there.
The second question is are you sure this FA is getting you a decent deal? Are you keeping an eye on what's out there, to be certain?
I dealt with a FA for my current mortgage, he kept me informed about any changes and always asked me what I wanted to do. He carried out my instructions, I wasn't just along for the ride.