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Your FA should be able to advise you on whether this is normal and what other banks would require. Ask them. Get them to do their job!
I am left wondering if this is how it is these days. I have spoken to a few people who've expressed surprise at this but all of them only have experience of mortgages from before the whole bank implosion thing happened.
Your FA should be able to advise you on whether this is normal and what other banks would require. Ask them. Get them to do their job!
You're right, I'll get onto it. I just wonder whether we've messed things up by saying that we've saved it and then changed the story, which isn't something I want to discuss with the FA in case that completely messes things up and we get blacklisted. Could that happen? But then this building society (Skipton) are saying they wouldn't have accepted a gifted deposit right from the off anyway.
Have you looked at Skipton's Lending policies? http://www.skipton-intermediaries.co.uk/pdf/mortgages/residentialLendingPolicyCriteriaApr12.pdf I haven't got time to read it all but I did notice they won't lend if there is a "Vendor Deposit". You wouldn't happen to be buying the property off your father? If not, I can't see anything about gifts from family members being a reason for refusal. (ETA: unless you're buying to let)You're right, I'll get onto it. I just wonder whether we've messed things up by saying that we've saved it and then changed the story, which isn't something I want to discuss with the FA in case that completely messes things up and we get blacklisted. Could that happen? But then this building society (Skipton) are saying they wouldn't have accepted a gifted deposit right from the off anyway.
Fuck 'em off and fuck off your financial advisor too, they're weasley twats leeching off you. Deal directly with the lenders.
'A lot of work has gone in to the application' - bollocks, 'this lot pay me the most commission' more like.
And tell the bank you got the money from dealing drugs, but you're not laundering it, you're spending it.
Sounds as though the credit reference agency need to amend their systems to remove the record of those defaults (not just to 'de-activate' them, but to actually remove them from the record).
At least you have an explanation from the FA about why the bank won't accept a gifted deposit in your case.
Our deposit was gifted, they asked for a letter from the person giving the gift, to confirm that it *was* a gift.I said to the FA that I'd heard that other people were getting mortgages with a gifted deposit and he said that he didn't know of any but would be prepared to look around if ŵe wanted. The problem with that, he said, is that every time there is application then our credit record would take a hit from the credit search.
When we first applied for the mortgage my gf found out that the bloke she had been in a relationship with before me had taken out a phone and something else in her name and not paid them, which meant she had defaults on her credit record. Our FA said that these were the reasons why we couldn't get a mortgage with a gifted deposit. He said he'd tried but no one was willing to offer one under those circumstances. We've now cleared them off and the credit agency accepted our reason why. Mainly because the ex-partner nearly killed her and the police still remembered her case 5 years on and gave her a letter as proof.
I think that we'll see what happens with the Skipton and if it doesn't work then we'll get rid of the FA and approach the banks ourselves.
Thanks for the advice and support that you've all given, it has been a big help.
Our deposit was gifted, they asked for a letter from the person giving the gift, to confirm that it *was* a gift.
Is it a difficult process to get them removed? We were under the impression that because we can't prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that it was him and he's now dead (slow painful stomach cancer, cheers Jesus!) that we just have to have the de-activated ones rather than having them removed.
I can't believe they're making such a stupid fuss about this
I got my mortgage deposit from my parents - I think it's pretty normal
I said to the FA that I'd heard that other people were getting mortgages with a gifted deposit and he said that he didn't know of any but would be prepared to look around if ŵe wanted. The problem with that, he said, is that every time there is application then our credit record would take a hit from the credit search.
BS - he can easily look at mortgage criteria and products without doing credit searches.
Also banks can do an initial (soft) credit search without leaving a trace on your file. It's only the hard credit search that leaves a record, so it's worth seeing what type of search they carried out.
Ok. But we're self employed and highrisk. Nb this was pre credit crunchHow was your credit record? Did it have any defaults if you don't mind me asking?