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Come on - no one is suggesting he was abusive. Families fall out and feud- God knows mine can feud for England, but it all comes out in the wash.
I'm of the opinion that God chooses your family but you choose your own friends, and conversely blood is thicker than water.

Whilst it's an option I think you need to consider very carefully before cutting lose a close family member. They need to have done something pretty bad I reckon.

Man turns his back on his family well he just ain't no good as Bruce Springsteen pointed out in the 80s

Or maybe you could consider carefully why they have used their platforms to clap back against the continuous attacks on them?

You can believe that God chooses our families, so what? :D IME people don't distance themselves or turn their backs on their families without good reason/s.
 
A pity, but Harry broke the 'deal', he had a life of immense privilege, the downside of course was a life of 'royal service'. Meghan couldn't handle that, she seemed to have no understanding of what she was signing up for.... basically having to cease having an opinion on anything at all contentious.
Going back to this - what's wrong with having opinions and expressing them? And what's wrong with not wanting to be part of the vile shitshow?
 
Well I guess that’s both of us that appear to be offended. If neither of us are that’s probably a good thing.

Yeah, that must be it. I engage with you, correct your flippant assertion and the only meaning you can make from that is that I must be 'offended' because that's the only basis for me disagreeing with you right? That's the only reason it could be, not because I am right and feel it's worthy of saying anything? Gotcha.
 
Yeah, that must be it. I engage with you, correct your flippant assertion and the only meaning you can make from that is that I must be 'offended' because that's the only basis for me disagreeing with you right? That's the only reason it could be, not because I am right and feel it's worthy of saying anything? Gotcha.

I was trying to be nice with that post.
 
IME people don't distance themselves or turn their backs on their families without good reason/s.
The most recent feud in my family was because my cousin was on Married at First Sight lol
Only lasted a few months that one thankfully
 
I remember some years back the term "ambiguously brown" being discussed on here. Common in computer games, cartoons and some TV shows - relates to a person who is clearly not of Northern European ancestry, but who does not get a specific clear ancestral background written in for them (sometimes in futuristic concepts, everyone is "ambiguously brown" - most of the humans in Mass Effect for instance).

Often a witless and low-cost way of giving the impression of fostering diversity in your content, but without having to tread near any potential landmines.

I haven't seen or thought of the term in ages, but typed it into Google and pic of Meghan came right up. I kind of think without that layer of ambiguity she might never have got a foot near Buckingham Palace.
 
It's a pretty common dynamic and experience in mixed ethnicity families IME, where the wider family culture includes 'racist' attitudes that is..

Pretty common for the non-white members to kind of think of themselves and kin in terms of a ranking of relative white/blackness too ime. Sadly heard my Mum come out with something quite racist a while back about someone much 'blacker' than her. The internalised stuff can come out in ways that are rather tragic. :(
 
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