Erm, no, I do not think that everybody has/will have kids, Greebo.
Obviously, some can't, some won't, some might not be lucky enough...
Nevertheless, this world rests on that which we teach to our kids, the values that we attempt to inculcate into them.
Hence my question at the end of the post...
Clarification: while living in the UK (17 years!), since I have 'socialised' in Ex-YU (I got to the UK as a 29 year old) - I had serious difficulties in "reading" Brits. Indeed, when I got to the UK it was a culture shock! At many levels! One of them was the rather guarded manner at which Brits communicate with one another and especially "foreigners". But then, when I started dating in the UK, having divorced my first wife, my UK dates and acquaintances all complained regarding the very same thing! "Why do you think we are so unsuccessful in dating/relationships", they would tell me. Indeed, lots of marriages in the UK fail, loads of them within a year of marriage. And these are just the recorded relationships, hence we have the stats.
A question, given the above: why would you try to read that much from maybe several posts in one thread on a forum? It seems a fertile ground for serious "over-thinking", reading into the man and his character, temperament, values etc.
In addition: I would add the dating across cultures on top of that "little" problem. If you can imagine just how much has to be worked on, in order to avoid the millions of everyday 'misunderstandings', constantly misreading one another's intentions, reading into them what we were brought up with, whilst the 'other' had nothing to do with such thoughts/needs...
I wish I had any other "insight" into this, other than "Whatever is really worthwhile - costs a huge effort, lots of time, honesty, good will, willingness [and capacity] to dropping the walls"! And that is rare - anywhere in the world. But I would say, in particular in North-West of EU, and in particular, more so in predominantly Protestant countries (see Weber), the US included.
Having lived in Ex-YU, UK, Sweden, Luxembourg and now Italy, having spent quite a bit of time in Brazil, having dated women from half the world (kinda
), having married a Brazilian woman (second time round), having travelled a lot and lived quite a bit, even in "interesting times", these things seem "obvious" to me.
But I bet there will be completely opposite thoughts on the subject...